I try not to take things too seriously, but sometimes I think that's impossible. I am looking for an old fashioned kind of guy in the sense that you will open my door, pull my chair out for me, and if it's pooring cats and dogs - offer to drop me at the entrance of a building rather than making me walk ten blocks in a hail storm. Not to say that bad weather isn't a good thing; I am a romantic and love to watch the rain and dance in the snow.

I am married but seperated - by my choice - and though divorce is my next step, it is a process. I enjoy my independance and being able to do what I want when I want to. With that being said, I like to snuggle up on a couch and watch a good movie or go out to a restraunt or bar to grab a bite and a drink.

I have three kids and if it weren't for them, I don't know if I would be who I am today. I am protective of them and I don't plan on introducing them to anybody for a while.

Oh, I don't accept crazy mean people. If you can't be respectful of me, my kids, and my family, than I am probably not the one for you.

I am a Client Service Manager for a financial institution (fancy words for assistant manager at a bank).

I also attend an online college, pursuing an AA in business finance.

Lastly, I try to keep up on staying cool because, well because I am just awesome like that!

If you were to ask someone I know, they would tell you i'm good at entertaining. I can throw a mean party (rarely, but I do) and I can make you laugh even if you're totally pissed.

On the flip side - I am really bad at taking out the garbage. I hate it - I think it sucks - and I hate it.

LOL - my glasses. If you ever see them, you will know why :O)

Leaves of Grass: Walt Whitman. Green Eggs and Ham (read it about thirty times this past week). And the Shack, it was a life changing book, probably one of the best I have ever read.

A few of my favs are Boondock Saints, Milk, Funny Face, and lot more, but the light's on me so of course I can't think of any others.

I listen to the radio mostly. I promise i'm not a communist - but I don't own an IPod. I will listen to pretty much anything and I love the Beatles - and if you don't... well, are you a communist? lol

I will try anything at least once. I LOVE sushi. Italian, mexican, thai, and seafood is always yummy.

- My Kids (I know I have three but i'm counting them as one)
- A ponytail or hair-clip (sometimes I just gotta get it out of the way)
- A comfortable pair of shoes (you never know where life will take you)
- Gum (I hate bad breath)
- A pen (A great idea isn't so great if it's forgotten, plus it sucks when I forget to buy milk)
- Love (tacky but true, the butterfly in my belly, blush when I see you, heart skips a beat, kind of love)

Why Jack (in the box) and Ronald McDonald never fought in Celebrity Death Match. C'mon you know it would've been a rockin fight!

I'm hanging out with my kids or friends.

Sometimes I like to blow in my tea just so that my glasses will fog up, because I'm random like that... that's right - i'm random.

You want a challenge in a woman, not a person that always bows down.

You want to laugh even when you feel like you can't laugh anymore.

You enjoy having a good time, which includes a good conversation.

You can be a gentleman and treat me like a lady... though sometimes - lol - nevermind.