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33 Bend, OR Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:32am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Politics / Government
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a whimsical person...very enthusiastic about life. I get excited easily and find joy in little things. I enjoy pushing people's buttons and keeping people on their toes, generally stirring up trouble and staying just barely out of its reach. I can't bear to let things get too dull. But at the same time I'm actually incredibly loyal to those I care about, and tend to care a great deal.

I know that it's almost mandatory to list all kinds of outdoorsy things but to be very frank and honest I'm not really so much that type. Yes I love to be outdoors, but I wouldn't really describe myself as "athletic". I'm more of a geeky type who loves to play games and watch anime. Not saying I wouldn't like to try some new things, but I'm a little bit of a fish out of water in Bend :-)
What I’m doing with my life
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Forcing myself back into the pool. I'm really just here to meet and chat with people and attempt to keep some form of sanity :-)

I love my job and my life as it is but there is a pretty big gaping hole in it at the moment. I would love to fill this with friends and social activities at some point...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Tracking down pretty much any information...quickly also. It's kind of my job (which is why I love my job) :-)

Adjusting/adapting to change. I try to see it as a new adventure...

Making people feel good about themselves.

Cooking (well, I enjoy it - this may be a matter of opinon)

Puzzles :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably that I look too young for ____ because I must still be in high school. And that my hair is really long.

That I'm always cold. People comment when I actually take my coat off at work because I hardly ever take it off. I would prefer that it would always be 70 degrees or warmer outside if I had my way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite book series of all time was the Black Jewels Trilogy by Anne Bishop, but I haven't read anything in a long time. I'm familiar with a lot and used to be a bookworm, but I'd just rather live things than read about them at this point....

As for movies I love mind-bending ones like Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Vanilla Sky, Memento, etc etc. I also looove comedies, especially British comedy. My favorite movie of all time is a little silly but it got me through some really bad times - Bridget Jones's Diary :-)

Music I'm all over the place on. I love a bit of everything except for country, and I can even find a few things I like in that category. My favorite is widely varied and little known. I usually first hear them go mainstream in commercials. Examples: Royksopp, Goldfrapp, telepopmusik, Lana del Rey, Eddie Vedder on the ukelele, Muse, Placebo...etc etc etc long as it's not still moving it's game. I kind of love everything...except eel. Eel is nasty. I could probably live on tacos and I love seafood.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My two little girls <3
2. Love
3. Music
4. Laughter
5. Intelligent conversation
6. Friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What makes people tick. I enjoy problem solving and especially coming up with very creative solutions to things people say are impossible.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a slumber party with my 2 little girls. :-) It's a weekly tradition.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have endometriosis. It's pretty well under control now, but my energy level has taken a big toll. I like to go hiking and do fun things outdoors, but I will probably never be a cross country skiier or anything that takes a lot of stamina.
You should message me if
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You have a positive outlook on life.

You don't feel the need to control everything.

You aren't looking for a booty call.

You're female and you're looking to make friends (only). I promise not to think anything weird of it :-)

You're looking for a friend or are going through a rough time. I'm always willing to listen or help :-) Or if you think we have something in common...