Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i'm in a big transitional phase.
i was born and raised in Riverside but have not lived here in
almost 10 years. i've just returned after spending the last 6
months working in India, and am excited to spend the summer
discovering new things about my childhood home while plotting my
next big move.
looking forward to spontaneous day trips around southern CA;
tapping into the queer subculture that i had no idea existed in the
inland empire (!); picking up my tennis racket and finding some
tennis partners so i can get back into it after years of not
playing; and experimenting with the Indian food recipes i learned
over the last few months.
What I’m doing with my life
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trying to take on my Saturn Return as gracefully as possible.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people feel at ease, seeing the bigger picture, keeping a
laser sharp focus on the ultimate point of a conversation, mining
the internet obsessively for random tidbits about rachel maddow
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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leonard cohen, anything by jeanette winterson, all dairy products
(the smellier the better), arrested development (though i quit the
second season after the 3rd episode and am still depressed about
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
dr. bronner's peppermint soap
the freedom to uproot my life and start again on a whim
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my cat, rachel maddow, vrschikasana, how much we're fucking up the
world, being somewhere else.
my ultimate fantasy: an isolated cottage on the west coast of
Ireland where i will someday retreat.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
since i've returned to Riverside, connecting with the baby-loving
side of myself that i had no idea existed -- i.e., cooing with
lovestruck eyes at one or all of my brand new nieces and nephew.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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sometimes i go to whole foods just for fun, to wander the aisles,
caress beautiful produce, and ogle the cheeses. an even more
private thing that i probably should not be willing to admit: my
response to this question might also apply to the "on a typical
Friday night" one...
You should message me if
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you're passionate, you have good stories to tell me, and you're
actually open to the possibility of meeting in person at some point
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