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22 Austin, TX Woman, Genderfluid

Woman, Genderfluid

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

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Pansexual, Queer, Bisexual
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Esperanto (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love going on dates: board games, movie night, walking down the park, futzing around in a library, setting things on fire, robbing a museum, just casual things.

UT grad from Plan II/English. I'm an outgoing introvert, so I'll chat up strangers for hours but love staying in with friends ogling naked bodies on Game of Thrones and talking about life. Also, totally using okc as a way to find people to build a queer movie/crafting group. (That's what this app is, right? A way for old ladies to connect?)

Forreal though - I'm a passionate person when it comes to learning and I love meeting people who are the same.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I get cyclically invested in: writing, embroidery, fitness, hiking, cooking, woodworking. Constantly educating myself about oppression, power, and subversion. I want to be a lady-in-waiting and a lumberjack. After all, gender is a performance or some shit, Butler said [citation needed].

Left my corporate manager job! Now I'm doing freelance work, writing for grad school, and talking to my cats. But don't worry, I also hang out with my friends that are not furry (that I know of).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'Il tell you what I'm bad at: getting cultural references, flirting with cute girls, starting books and then not eating until I'm done, understanding fine wine, living up to my Chinese mother's hopes of me becoming a doctor
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My resting bitch face, which vacillates between 'angry' and 'constipated.'

If it's possible to be a bit shy but also extremely open to talking about incredibly inappropriate subjects, that's me too!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books/Movies - Favorite authors are GG Marquez/Yiyun Li/Junot Diaz/Kazuo Ishiguro. As for funner stuff, can't go wrong with Gaiman. I love sci-fi, slipstream, and cross-genre. Character nonfiction (Destiny of the Republic) is really great too! Does anyone else develop deep crushes on historical figures? For me it's Madame de Pompadour and President James Garfield. Check out how he was elected, it's hilarious.

Music - My perfect Pandora station: Chopin, Gottschalk, Clazziquai, Janelle Monae, Justice, and Bitter:Sweet. Throw some Biggie in there too.

Shows - There is no show I watch that distinguishes me from the Austinite doctor-who-and-game-of-thrones crowd. Recent pleasure: Black Mirror. Brazen pleasure: RuPaul's Drag Race.

Food - I cook a lot - the hotter the better. If there were a spicy food question, it would be set not even at mandatory, but exclusionary. Listen - Chinese people have an actual word for those who don't like spicy food, and it's not nice.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. my extensive collection of pens
2. books
3. nail polish
4. sriracha
5. bitchy-looking shoes
6. the young human skin I wear so nobody knows I'm a slug alien
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be a better person. Social justice and action work. Literary and cultural analysis. Send me some longforms and I'll send you back my feelings charted on Excel.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends, hitting up strangers, cooking senselessly elaborate meals because I get urges for everything at the worst times.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have two laughs: a pretty giggle that I practiced in the mirror as an insecure teen and a guffaw so crude that I'll actually drool.

Currently in a poly relationship, so I'm casually seeing people aside from my partner (pm me for link), and have some fwbs, so if you message me please keep that in mind :) I am very NSA, and pretty kink+.
You should message me if
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You wanna do activities (I mean this in both the literal sense and the Stepbrothers sense)...or if you're a lover of queer politics, or a reader of fantastical things, or a terminally ill and extremely rich person.

I generally respond to people with something interesting or funny to say, whether it's about you or me or the history of potato farming.

Also, my POC, femme, queer community - hit me up!