K, just kiddin' ... kinda ;-P. Seriously, I'm a newly divorced mother of two young children. I've had some luck on here before, but because of amicable issues (timing), things didn't work out, so I'm baaaaack. ;-P I'm still awful at texting though. ;-P I'm looking for someone I can connect with on all levels, emotionally, intellectually, physically, etc. and just enjoy spending time with basically.
I love to have fun and to laugh (that sounds cheesy, because, really?!?! who doesn't?!?! but I've been told I do more than the average person), I love to try anything new, I love to be around positive people, I love learning new things, expanding my own thoughts and ideas ... I'll pretty much try anything twice - just in case the first time was a fluke.
I'm not sure if these would be considered deal breakers, but I'll just put it out there just in case to save people time:
- I'm an atheist, humanist, and a Unitarian. Which as you can assume, means I'm pretty liberal. Along those same lines, as much as I am open minded and try to be non-judgmental in every day relationships and friendships, I'm more interested in finding a partner/lover who is on the same page with me religiously and politically.
- I have 3 tattoos and a nose ring (small). The tattoos are small and hidden for the majority of the time though and you can get an idea of the nose ring from my April 2014 profile pic.
Some things I've learned about myself from previous relationships lately (that might be potential deal breakers):
- I really value my "dating time." Since I'm a Mom with two small kids, I value the times I can go out and be an adult and talk about and do adult things. It actually makes me a better Mom since it recharges me. I can usually do this between 2-3 times a week and I look forward to those nights, so being "wishy-washy" and not finalizing plans is not ok with me since then I miss out on other opportunities to go out and enjoy myself. If your schedule is crazy and hectic, then I am probably not the right person for you right now.
- I need to be monogamous. *THAT* shouldn't need an explanation. ;-P
My tastes are pretty eclectic - I like plays, art museums/exhibits, working out, yoga, going to the driving range, taking my bike out on the Greenway, skiing, hiking, camping, massages, Debating/discussing w/ people politics, religion, morals, ethics, etc., the beach, the mountains, the city, I could get into tennis if properly motivated, music, taking pictures (my nickname is Kodak Moment), being on/close to water, volunteering in the community, horseback riding.