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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:18pm
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Not at all
Christianity but it’s not important
Two-year college
Has kid(s)
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Im an east coast new england guy transplanted in northern california

but was born in Iowa...very odd combination I know.

I have 2 amazing sons and im a dedicated beardless tattooed Dad. I'm a musician and an audio engineer that loves comic books full of emotions....
What I’m doing with my life
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living life working in the nightclub and music industry. I love what I do. I'm very passionate about music and art. Watching independant Films is another passion of mine. I genuinely love creativity and the raw wide open soul it takes to put yourself out there. life is reflective. I always see the positive and negative experiences bounce back into my reality whether i'm fully aware or ready. I just move forward as swiftly and definitively as i can.

life is an interesting ride full of
ups and downs
Having a partner makes the ride alot more fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
writing and recording music. working closely and honestly with people. whether your a newbie trying to find your voice or a seasoned songwriter i have a knack for being transparent in the studio environment allowing the artists light to shine through. I must admit it's taking quite a few years to gain the patience and understanding to do this type of work, but i find it very rewarding when things click and my clients are happy. Some tend to say im pretty patient with kids and raising my sons is top priority for me. when they were born i quit work and stayed home for 5 years making sure they were taken care of. I really learned a lot in the experience as i had to separate my music life from my daily dad life and focus deeply on each one individually. If your wondering where the mom was, she was being a badass professional working mom by day and a super mom by night.

Im pretty good at giving space when things get too uncomfortably close and stuffy. I've realized that being open and listening are two of my strongest traits.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair, it's pretty long they tell me(super grey too). i've been growing it since 1989, but i still am unable grasp the mass as it's always behind me...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Junot Diaz, Daniel Clowes, los hernandez bros. love and rockets series, I'm a GraphicNovelHead, the whiteboy shuffle, Everybody smokes in hell, shakespeare, wax poetics magazine, vice magazine MOVIES: pulp fiction, The Warriors, True romance, Adventures in baby sitting, Purple Rain, the idolmaker, American Beauty, ROCKY HORROR PICTURE SHOW, Annie the movie, MUSIC: prince, 80's and 90's hiphop, run dmc, LL cool jay, tribe called quest, de la soul, the roots, nine inch nails, the time, the family, prince(again), flytetime productions, van halen, black sabbath(ozzy and dio), jimi hendrix, beatles, j davey, kelis, nas, jayZ, bjork, sugarcubes, the specials, big audio dynamite, david sylvian, Sakamoto
SHOWS:girls, project runway, true blood, weeds, game of thrones. six feet under, community, 30 rock, glee, the wire, avatar the last airbender, cowboy bebop, parenthood( movie and the show) Smash, Shameless, house of lies, newsroom, Archer,Masters of Sex
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
women's curves
my sons

not in that order
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
staying busy and staying me
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
performing or working an event or working in the studio
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm very much a melancholy muso hopelessly waiting for you to say hello
You should message me if
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you'd like to say hello, i don't bite