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37 • M • Oakland, CA
I’m looking for
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 24–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last Online
- Aug 4
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body Type
- A little extra
- Mostly vegetarian
- When drinking
- Buddhism, and laughing about it
- Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
- Dropped out of space camp
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes cats
At work, I manage safety operations for an alternative medical facility. I also work security/emergency medical at festivals and unique events throughout California and Nevada. This comes from a misguided youth spent sneaking into said festivals and events.
I've recently ended a long term relationship (not looking to dive into another one so soon but I'll never say never), moved back to Oakland and am enjoying seeing old friends and finding new ones to wreak havoc with. I'm poly-friendly and hope to meet others that are open and accepting.
I enjoy riding my motorcycle, making art, making food, making out, meeting interesting people, meditating on impermanence.
Authors & Genres: Neil Stephenson, William Gibson, Bruce Sterling, cyberpunk/steampunk, Neil Gamen, Tim Powers, Hunter S. Thompson, Tom Robbins, Michael Ondaatje, Chuck Palahniuk, Henry Miller, PKD, Aldous Huxley, Terrance McKenna...
Movies & Shows: Sukiyaki Western Django, Big Lebowski, Invader Zim, Momento, Eddie Izzard, Pulp Fiction, Heathers, Clerks, Ameile, Big Fish, Pan's Labyrinth, Nightmare before Christmas, Twin Peaks, Waking Life...
Music: Everything but formulaic Country and even then there are always exceptions to the rule. The Smiths, Morrissey, Smashing Pumpkins, The Cure, The Clash, Depeche Mode, Joy Division, Portishead, Dead Kennedys, Fugazi, Flogging Molly, The Pogues, Descendents, Abney Park, Skinny Puppy, Radiohead, Me First and the Gimmie Gimmies, Morphine, Mos Def, The Fugees, Pixies, Beastie Boys, Beats Antique, Circus Contraption, Gorillaz, Dresden Dolls, Soul Coughing, Wu Tang Clan...
Food: I'm adventurous and will try anything thrice. Mostly stick to a vegetarian diet but do love to splurge on cured meats and stinky cheeses. I'm also one hell of a cook and enjoy dinner parties.
and sex...because I'm a guy and that's what we do.
If it's not a work night, then most likely I'm out being part of the problem - singing, snogging, swearing, sipping on adult beverages and wringing the last bit out of life's messy bar towel (which strangely tastes like kombucha).
I also enjoy being a homebody. Curled up on a couch or in bed with a book, maybe a movie...especially if its raining out, the sound washes over everything and leaves me in a trance. If its warm, I'll be outside splashing around and inhaling the smell rain creates as it falls on the hot asphalt.
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