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37 • Louisville, KY • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–40
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 17
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Strictly other
- Not at all
- Taurus, and it matters a lot
- Graduated from high school
- Rather not say
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English, Spanish
With the ever so changing life of technology, i find myself using my phone to do everything, and sometimes that makes changing things challenging with the way some apps go about doing things. With that being said, this part of my essay isnt going to make much sense or will have a lack of flow. I seem to come on here in a 6th month period. That can prove to tell a whole lot about me if you choose to dig deep. I find my life changes quite frequently, and im having to update this profile to the extent that i must sound like a manic. Lol
I am still in the Louisville area. But what im looking for is a bit different now. I am looking for a pretty lady to have some fun with.
So i feel i need to state a few things since i now know a bit about meeting people from online. I in no way misrepresent myself on here. Everything i have stated is true and honest. My pictures are clear and recent and i dont hide behind some excuse like i dont want other people i may know seeing me on here. I in no way want to be friends with someone that isnt up front and honest about how they live their life. If you do not have a picture please do not contact me in any way for any reason. I judge people on their words, actions and how they live their life. Not by their looks, skin color, handicaps, body type, their education, their up bringing or their job. I expect to meet people that are the same.
Now as for me i'm like a good book you just can't put down. I've been told I'm very intriguing. And if you like to read intriguing things then you will love my book of a profile. LOL What can I say to get you to message me? That's what this is all about right? Well all I can do is be myself. which is pretty damn awesome! ;) I'm an open book. Very, very open. :) to a fault almost. lol Please ask me anything. I will always tell you the truth. No matter the question. It would be nice to get some actual questions for a change instead of hi or a smiley face. come on people you can do better than that. LOL you know at first I was answering every message. I was trying to give peeps a chance you know, (trying to live my life like the movie yes man) but then I realized people that just say "hello" or "youre hot" well to put it nicely, that's all they have to say. Sad really I think. But what can you do. People are going to be people. So yeah..... I've stopped answering those types of messages. LOL see I can still learn things ;p
I guess I should put it out there that I am single and like it that way. I like to be able to do what I want when I want to. I'm on here to make friends with possible chance of benefits. I am into the poly lifestyle and wouldn't mind having a gf or bf that lives in that world. What I don't like doing is having sex with random strangers, so stop trying u perverts! Lol if u want to get in my pants we have to be friends first. period. end of story! and not friends that just fuck and thats it. friends that hang out, go out to eat, do things together, friends you learn to love and care about like they are your own family. i do travel a lot so if your not in KY thats fine to i love penpals lol but seriously if im on the road i always try to make stops to see my friends that live in other states. And I'm on the road a lot.
I love deep conversations with good interesting subjects. I find that if you can not communicate about important things, then there really isn't going to be anything between us. Please forgive my writing skills. I'm dyslexic so it kinda trips me up a bit with my phrasing. What I lack in book smarts, I make up with life experience, common sense and street smarts. i promise you, you will not be disappointed, If you just give me a chance. Intelligence really turns me on in every aspect of my life. That is why I try to learn something new everyday. I was playing words with friends just so I could learn how to be a better speller. Everyday is a new day to better myself. For some reason I have a hard time explaining myself eloquently through words and how I phrase them. My words are always true to heart and i feel thats all that matters. I know I am an editors worst nightmare or maybe their greatest achivement. Depending if they really like their job ;)
I actually like how this site gives percentages of how we connect with each other. That's really important to me. I have found in past relationships (being friends or partners) i don't work well with others i have nothing in common with. with that being said please dont message me if u are below a 80% and if you do ill know you didnt read my profile. :( And just so u know the only people that I have met on here and are friends with were in the 90%. i am looking for friends that i have almost everything in common with. I just feel its a waste of time and effort if there isn't going to be that connection there. i want us to think the same, like the same things and even have the same vices. even the same eating habits are very important to me. very! i have changed my way of living lately and i really just want positive and like mined people in my life. if you message me and you are below 80% you better be fucking god damn funny, awesome, positive, and all around a really good kind hearted person. sorry to be so in your face about this but ive been getting so many messages from people that just arent even on the same wave length as me. so frustarating........ i dont like being bitchy and rude but sometimes you guys just wont take no for an answer. wtf.......
Things I like:
all water sports, not being a consumer, Making a difference
dancing my ass off, rocks stones crystals, music-going to shows
anti government, not being a sheep, mind body soul, energy n outer space, suicide girls, red heads, freckles, sushi, stars (the shape), the color green, insects, animals, well all creatures big and small,
organic living, Star gazing (actual stars), protesting, growing ur own food, knowing what I want, people that smell yummy,
gardening, things that make u feel alive, passion for life,
building legos with my niece, fun jewelry, Being positive,
Tree hugging, randomness, camping, snow boarding, motorcycles,
skateboarding, Thrill Seeking, being active, hiking,
good tattoos n their stories, cell phone charms,
trying anything once, roller coasters, traveling, the theatre,
Fashion, art, Creating, Movies, disney, Cartoon characters,
cute morbid things, taking pictures, making things, decorating,
driving fast, eating weird foods, horror n scary things, skeletons,
asking questions questioning everything, anything that grows from the earth, old cars, the 50s 60s 70s, vintage clothing,
saving the earth, eating n living healthy, recycling everything,
Ocean creatures, very colorful things, things that are out dated,
fixing things instead of throwing them away, learning from the past to better my present, enlightenment, that light bulb moment,
Everything Asian, learning how to do everything
My grandma was buried in jan, 2014. Now that her suffering is over, i feel i can start to move forward and heal. I have to admit that i have fallin into depression's vicious cycle that comes with the territory of being a caregiver. I would really like to put all this hurt behind me and positively look to the future.
I havent worked on my business since i moved here. I am proactively going to push forward and really make my business a priority this year.
I am currently looking for an RV to live in so that i can take my business on the road. Since i sell online i can basicly work from anywhere there is a post office. When i moved here i left all my stuff and inventory in storage in cali. As soon as i find a RV, my plan is to drive out there and start selling my stuff from storage. This is what my future holds....... update- march 2015 bought the RV but still in KY waiting for the estate to be finshed, hopefully 2 more months and i can get out of here and on the road.
Ok now back to what i normally do with my life ..... :D
i am trying to fall off the grid
but in the mean time looking for people to do it with
almost three years ago i was fired from my job
i found it to be a wake up call and a time and place to look at my life and find out what the hell was going on. i found that i had no meaning, no love, no happiness, no pleasure, no passion. i had turned into someone i didnt know. someone i hated. i lived in a world of lies. i was so miserable in every aspect of my life. i had fallen into the trap. the trap of working to pay bills and not actually living. living pay check to pay check never doing anything for myself. only worrying about how i was going to pay off my debt. i said enough is enough and i started the process of getting my life back and my soul. i am now the person i wanted to grow up to be when i was in high school. i am doing my lifes dreams. i am living the life i have always wanted.
i know what i want and i go after it and get it. i know the true meaning of freedom now. i started my own business, something that i love doing. everyday is a new day to be happy. im finding new ways everyday to disconnect from the sheeple way of living. i hate our government and i hate what this country has become. i would love to live off the land and disconnect completely . this is where my goals are going towards . some kind of communal living with like minded people. with lots of organic living :)
peace, love, happiness and understanding :) <3
FUN FACTS: about me of course ;)
Turning negativity to positivity. Starting a new chapter. Really wishing this had a spell check. I don't care what other people think about me. I am harder on myself than anyone could. Is it weird that I like filling out these things? I want to be able to use big words some day. Dreads, glasses and beards really turn me on. I'm finding out in my old age that I really like talking. I also have noticed that it is very hard to not be a hypocrite in the present day that we live in. I want things to be black and white and yet I keep finding grey. I have been made fun of my whole life. I feel it has made me stronger. I love food. My sweet tooth will be the death of me. I never look the same for very long. If I could live in the ocean I would. I am funny and sarcastic. I over think everything. I'm a giver, Animals are not pets they are family. I will always look at something and see how it can be done simpler. I don't like wasting time. I work good under presure. I like puzzles. I have driven across the country more times than I can count but yet haven't been to every state. I want to travel the world. I have lived in four states, one of them twice and one of them more then I care to. I have only been to 5 other countries and that is sad to me. I never want to go back to a 9 to 5 job. I wanted to join the peacecorp but they only take college graduates. I want to have my own blog someday. everyday i speak and share the word of truth on my facebook. I like to challenge my body. I think what I eat should be good enough for my partner to eat. I'm a creative cook. I want more tattoos. I have a toering on every toe. I love to dance and wish I could get paid to do it. I write in a journal. I hope some day that it will turn into a book. I run, take pilates and do yoga. I have lived through many natural disasters. I am awesome, but can be shy at times. I eat leftovers. I don't waste anything. I love horror movies and halloween is my favorite holiday. I'm having a hard time finding movies that scare me. I believe in aliens. I want to live on a houseboat. I want to live in alaska. I love cold weather and snow. I love sharing. I have nothing to hide. I never pay full price for anything. You will never know someone else like me.
-being a good friend n lover
-giving n caring for others
-telling you how it is
-being creative n artistic
-being passionate n loving
-handling money n being responsible
-being honest n respectful
-being true to my unique self
-listening and giving good advice
-anything i want to be good at
and yes i am braging ;p I don't find anything wrong with braging so as long as you can back it up. Trust me I only do it with things I know I can :)
-my eye make up
-or my clothes
which is a direct view into my personality :)
and yes i wear my heart on my sleeve
MUSIC- all music!!!!! But seriously telling u what I don't like is easier I feel. Will not listen to country, RnB, gospel, hair bands n some in the metal genres. I like music that makes you want to get up and dance. Music that makes you feel the emotions behind it. I am always open to learning new artists, bands, singers, DJs, instruments and genres. feel free to message me with someone u think i just have to hear :) so far one person has given me one band that I already knew lol come on guys share the love.
i love the theatre, MOVIES n tv SHOWS but im trying to push them aside for now. there are way more important things to consume in my life right now. but i really do enjoy every aspect of how all of them are created. I collect movies. Infact i kinda like to think of myself as quite the critic. i love to dissect movies. The only ones I don't like are true sad stories. I watch movies to escape reality why would I want to cry about the horrible things that I want to wish away like they never happened. Anything that can make me laugh is A ok in my book. Romance is always good so is some awesome action. But what I really like is fantasy, syfy and horror. my dream job would be a set decorator, prop master or costumist. ahh... dreams <3
BOOKS- books and i have a weird relationship. i love them, but they hate me. but i havent given up on them. they will come around im sure of it. :) in the mean time I enjoy magazines and kids books lol they have pictures ;)
1. art 1. love
2. music 2. freewill
3. nature 3. honesty
4. animals 4. strength
5. the sky 5. compassion
6. the ocean 6. knowing right from wrong
my answers just really impressed me right now :)
Notice there is no material objects in those lists.
and im really mad that i took the time to space these into 2 columns and when i saved it it ended up looking like this :( blah fuck you ok cupid for fucking with my mojo!
My thoughts are my greatest comfort, my dreams are just that, my imagination is my best friend.
Some things I think about are...
why things are the way they are
why people are the way they are
why people do the things they do
how the world became the way it is
how people became the way they are
How can I change the world
How can I make my life better
How can I live the life I want
How i attract the wrong people
Why i cant seem to find what im looking for
Why are some days easier than others
When will other people learn
When will the madness end
When will the suffering end
When will there be love
When will there be peace
What will i work on today
What will i learn today
What is in my food
How was this made
What am i really putting in my body
How much damage have i done to my body in my ignorant years
When will the damage be repaired
How im going to do all the things i want to do
Expanding my mind in some way
Sharing time with someone interesting
Getting into something
Not doing the same thing every friday
i dont sleep with strangers i sleep with my friends ;)
Please don't message me if you haven't read my profile all the way through.
If you are funny I love funny!!!
If you like to get high on every level
If you hate the world around you and wish you could change it
If you believe life is filled with moments
If you believe things happen for a reason
If you think I'm hot and can't live without me, but you better be damn Funny lol
How about things you shouldn't be :
If you have contacted me before and forgot we talked mr. Bad memory. you laugh but its happened three times now
If you're not an animal person
If u are a racist, selfish bastard
If you are a dirty old man or woman (meaning older than what age i specified in my profile)
If you're into violence and war
If u have no soul or heart
If u don't care about what u put in ur body
If u litter and contaminate the earth
If you aren't kind and nice to everyone you come into contact with
If you're not funny
If youre a smoker or an alcoholic
If you don't like adventure
If you can't have a conversation with me
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