update- 6/8/15 its like ya'll cant read??? lol SMH, i keep getting messages that say "i think we match well" umm, what is it about not wanting my own kids, someone in my age limit (posted), not looking for a hook up, no judgemental people, poly only and not wanting meat eaters that you dont get? seriously can someone tell me what im doing wrong? i dont get. i went back to only wanting girls because guys seem to just not understand, sorry, not sorry! why ya gotta make a girl get bitchy? lol forever shaking my head, a girls got wiplash, lol
side note- if you are a couple that has kids thats fine, i just dont want to be put in the position of the mommy or daddy role.
june 5, 2015- ive changed a lot in the last few months and i dont have time to go back and edit this crazy long profile, sorry. lol as for lovers and friends i would prefer you to be vegetarian or vegan. im independent, a traveler, im tired of other peoples bullshit, im poly and looking for my tribe, i dont shop at corporate stores or restaurants, i only buy second hand and dumpster dive, i dont dye my hair anymore or use chemicals in my life, ive been weeding out plastic which is extremely hard, i do my best and what i can in this hypocritical world we live in, i have 2 teeth missing and only want people in my life that arent superficial and hung up on appearances, i also stopped shaving my legs and couldnt be more happy about it, i hardly ever wear makeup anymore and i dress to be comfortable, i like my alone time and would prefer you not be needy and clingy people, im not interested in having a lover that still has kids at home, thats not the life i want, im not here to fix you so please stop coming to me like im your miracle cure, im a unicorn through and through, no one will ever be able to understand me and im fine with that, i want to meet people that truely know who they are and make no excuses for being who they are, i dont live in modern society, i dont believe in our government or paying taxes, i recycle more than i throw away and i pick up trash and litter everywhere i go, mother earth is my god, animals and insects are my friends, i never hold back how i feel and will tell you the truth no matter how much it hurts you to hear it, i dont sugarcoat or pussyfoot, im not looking to hook up with anyone, im only looking for like minded souls that are compassionate, learning every day to be a better version of your earier self, passionate in everything u do and free thinkers and lovers. i dont drink, smoke, do drugs, drink coffee or soda, i dont need to escape or alter my reality, im a purist, i dont judge u if you do these things though. please dont contact me if you eat animals. i seriously just want to get away from that frame of mind, youre funding murdering egotistical psychopaths and helping to fund the distruction of our planet. i understand everyone has a path and am just looking for souls that are near or around the places i am awake to in my life. there, ive said my peace :)
Update march 2014- i bought an RV and i am traveling around where ever my BIG heart wants, depending on which way the wind blows. Lol Im currently in florida visiting friends and family. I have already been here for 3 1/2 weeks and im starting to get hot. lol i dont like the heat! Im moving north to hopefully cooler air. Going to be stoping in louisville KY for the summer to renovate parts of the RV to make it more energy efficient and space efficient for my business that im taking on the road. Im super excited to see where this journey takes me. Anyone that is reading this and knows anything about life on the road or in a RV/CAMPER/TRAILER/CONVERTED BUS/MINI HOME please feel free to contact me. Ive only owned my new baby tumbleweed since march and all of this is so new to me. Im really excited to join the world of RVing on the road! Smiles :)
With the ever so changing life of technology, i find myself using my phone to do everything, and sometimes that makes changing things challenging with the way some apps go about doing things. With that being said, this part of my essay isnt going to make much sense or will have a lack of flow. I seem to come on here in a 6th month period. That can prove to tell a whole lot about me if you choose to dig deep. I find my life changes quite frequently, and im having to update this profile to the extent that i must sound like a manic. Lol
I am still in the Louisville area. But what im looking for is a bit different now. I am looking for a pretty lady to have some fun with.
So i feel i need to state a few things since i now know a bit about meeting people from online. I in no way misrepresent myself on here. Everything i have stated is true and honest. My pictures are clear and recent and i dont hide behind some excuse like i dont want other people i may know seeing me on here. I in no way want to be friends with someone that isnt up front and honest about how they live their life. If you do not have a picture please do not contact me in any way for any reason. I judge people on their words, actions and how they live their life. Not by their looks, skin color, handicaps, body type, their education, their up bringing or their job. I expect to meet people that are the same.
Now as for me i'm like a good book you just can't put down. I've been told I'm very intriguing. And if you like to read intriguing things then you will love my book of a profile. LOL What can I say to get you to message me? That's what this is all about right? Well all I can do is be myself. which is pretty damn awesome! ;) I'm an open book. Very, very open. :) to a fault almost. lol Please ask me anything. I will always tell you the truth. No matter the question. It would be nice to get some actual questions for a change instead of hi or a smiley face. come on people you can do better than that. LOL you know at first I was answering every message. I was trying to give peeps a chance you know, (trying to live my life like the movie yes man) but then I realized people that just say "hello" or "youre hot" well to put it nicely, that's all they have to say. Sad really I think. But what can you do. People are going to be people. So yeah..... I've stopped answering those types of messages. LOL see I can still learn things ;p
I guess I should put it out there that I am single and like it that way. I like to be able to do what I want when I want to. I'm on here to make friends with possible chance of benefits. I am into the poly lifestyle and wouldn't mind having a gf or bf that lives in that world. What I don't like doing is having sex with random strangers, so stop trying u perverts! Lol if u want to get in my pants we have to be friends first. period. end of story! and not friends that just fuck and thats it. friends that hang out, go out to eat, do things together, friends you learn to love and care about like they are your own family. i do travel a lot so if your not in KY thats fine to i love penpals lol but seriously if im on the road i always try to make stops to see my friends that live in other states. And I'm on the road a lot.
I love deep conversations with good interesting subjects. I find that if you can not communicate about important things, then there really isn't going to be anything between us. Please forgive my writing skills. I'm dyslexic so it kinda trips me up a bit with my phrasing. What I lack in book smarts, I make up with life experience, common sense and street smarts. i promise you, you will not be disappointed, If you just give me a chance. Intelligence really turns me on in every aspect of my life. That is why I try to learn something new everyday. I was playing words with friends just so I could learn how to be a better speller. Everyday is a new day to better myself. For some reason I have a hard time explaining myself eloquently through words and how I phrase them. My words are always true to heart and i feel thats all that matters. I know I am an editors worst nightmare or maybe their greatest achivement. Depending if they really like their job ;)
I actually like how this site gives percentages of how we connect with each other. That's really important to me. I have found in past relationships (being friends or partners) i don't work well with others i have nothing in common with. with that being said please dont message me if u are below a 80% and if you do ill know you didnt read my profile. :( And just so u know the only people that I have met on here and are friends with were in the 90%. i am looking for friends that i have almost everything in common with. I just feel its a waste of time and effort if there isn't going to be that connection there. i want us to think the same, like the same things and even have the same vices. even the same eating habits are very important to me. very! i have changed my way of living lately and i really just want positive and like mined people in my life. if you message me and you are below 80% you better be fucking god damn funny, awesome, positive, and all around a really good kind hearted person. sorry to be so in your face about this but ive been getting so many messages from people that just arent even on the same wave length as me. so frustarating........ i dont like being bitchy and rude but sometimes you guys just wont take no for an answer. wtf.......
Things I like:
all water sports, not being a consumer, Making a difference
dancing my ass off, rocks stones crystals, music-going to shows
anti government, not being a sheep, mind body soul, energy n outer space, suicide girls, red heads, freckles, sushi, stars (the shape), the color green, insects, animals, well all creatures big and small,
organic living, Star gazing (actual stars), protesting, growing ur own food, knowing what I want, people that smell yummy,
gardening, things that make u feel alive, passion for life,
building legos with my niece, fun jewelry, Being positive,
Tree hugging, randomness, camping, snow boarding, motorcycles,
skateboarding, Thrill Seeking, being active, hiking,
good tattoos n their stories, cell phone charms,
trying anything once, roller coasters, traveling, the theatre,
Fashion, art, Creating, Movies, disney, Cartoon characters,
cute morbid things, taking pictures, making things, decorating,
driving fast, eating weird foods, horror n scary things, skeletons,
asking questions questioning everything, anything that grows from the earth, old cars, the 50s 60s 70s, vintage clothing,
saving the earth, eating n living healthy, recycling everything,
Ocean creatures, very colorful things, things that are out dated,
fixing things instead of throwing them away, learning from the past to better my present, enlightenment, that light bulb moment,
Everything Asian, learning how to do everything