I have been a widow for almost 4 years now and am looking for the last love of my life. I haven't gotten use to nor do I like living alone. To borrow a line from another profile I saw "I want someone to love me without fear, trust me without wondering, love me without restrictions, want me without demands and accept me how I am." I am looking for a long term REAL, COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP that will change your life and mine for the better. He would have been widowed or divorced long enough ago that the baggage or grief has been put away and he's ready for a new relationship. He would be "middle of the road" politically or a little left. He would not have any serious health problems that would stop him from having a new relationship. Being open to travel would be nice but not mandatory. It would also be nice if he was not an avid sports fan but did like to dance. I still work full time because I enjoy my work and it fills in all of those hours. I have no living relatives left but I have some very close friends that I have adopted as family and they mean a lot to me. I lost my only child 16 years ago and he had no children so I have my friend's grandchildren that they share with me. I love reading both fiction and non-fiction. A favorite fiction would be War and Remembrance and Winds of War. I like a lot of different types of music. I like silence and nature too. I like vintage movies, Elvis, the Beattles, the Beach Boys. I also enjoy classical. Especially Mozart. I still like to watch old I Love Lucy tapes and All in the Family too. I have Netflix so I watch a lot of the current movies.

I have a full time job that I really enjoy. I donate a lot of time to a couple of different non-profit organizations. I get together with friends for dinner. When I'm home I love to read and watch movies. Then I'm trying to figure out how to get the woodpeckers to stop pecking holes in my siding.

Making people in my life feel cared for.

I've been told it's the smile.

There are so many favorites I can't list them as far as books and movies go My favorite food is Italian. For music I like a variety of types. I am a Beattles, Elvis and Mozart fan.

God
food & water
house
cloths
my friends - they are my only family

Spirituality, God and politics

Out for fish with friends

I guess that's too private

you're looking for a long term relationship.