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39 Dortmund, Germany Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 11
6′ 3″ (1.90m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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A staidly mixture of chaos-affinity, curiosity about how things tick and the assumption that things are not as simple as they seem to be. I tend to assume the better nature in people, so far it worked out for me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That the large, black-clad guy with the shaved head is a lot more accessible and good natured than they assumed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors (no denying I am into science fiction)
Charles Stross, Daniel Suarez, Terry Pratchett, Neal Stephenson, Douglas Adams, Cory Doctorow, Mark Brandis, Ramez Naam

Better off Ted, Black Adder, Community, Doctor Who, A Game of Thrones, The Big Bang Theory, The IT Crowd, Firefly, South Park

Podcasts (I am listening to podcasts a LOT)
CRE, Chaosradio, Metrolaut, Alternativlos, Logbuch-Netzpolitik, Die Weisheit, WRINT, N00bcore, Newz of the world

Music (varies widely, last things I heard include)
Symphony of Science, Tim Minchin, Not Literally, Dota Kehr, Bad Religion, Björk, Dropkick Murphys, Subway to Sally, Tenacious D, Markus Wiebusch, Rainald Grebe, Atari Teenage Riot, Garfunkel and Oates, Stephen Lynch

Webcomics (my day usually starts with reading the new ones)
Questionable Content, Giants in the playground, UserFriendly.Org, xkcd, Abstruse Goose, Saturday Morning Breakfast Cereal, Ménage à 3, erzaehlmirnix

Also Cloud Atlas was a masterpiece ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Right now? How the concept of asymetric insight - the tendency to assume we understand other people better than other people understand us - influences us when reading profiles here.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The last novel written by Terry Pratchett is standing unread on my shelf - because I don't want to live in a world that can not offer unread Pratchett books.
You should message me if
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Here's the deal - sometimes I sit in front of my computer contemplating what to say to someone here who doesn't know me, and whom I find interesting because he or she's commented an answer and I get the impression he or she wasn't comfortable with a simple yes/no answer to the same questions I would not have been comfortable with, .. or we share a hobby, love the same books.
If you feel something akin to this when reading my profile, and can't think of something to say to me - just tell me that you couldn't think of something to say, it'll be okay ;)