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widsith1

49 Berkeley, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:22pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm here because single men die younger, and I love life. I've traveled extensively in SE Asia, Nepal, India, Morocco, and Europe. I've lived in Barcelona, China and Tokyo. I'm interested in ideas and like to talk about them. I want to hear what you're passionate about and why. Not great at chit-chatting and talking for the sake of talking. Silence when you or I don't have anything to say is very fine. I'm postmodern and multicultural in thinking and tastes. Although anti-religious and not really spiritual, I find something delightfully mystifying in the Buddhist notion of wei-wu-wei. I'm anomalous, but not in a 'quirky' way (which to me seems more a cultivated style).

I love the Bay Area's proximity to fantastic non-urban areas [the urban's not so bad either]. How lucky we are to live here. Weekends and midweek find me biking and/or hiking somewhere. I may also be in the kitchen. I love cooking with wine [a glass of it in my hand or in the pot]. Some of my 'creations' may not come out as envisioned but it's about the journey, right? In a former life I taught at Cal Sailing. That experience has got me on boats crewing (foredeck and helm) in Lake Michigan, Long Island and in the Mediterranean.
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing, editing, teaching, lots of dancing, biking, sailing, volunteering. Getting my dog Chuck to pee on command.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
In no particular order:
Big picture stuff [working on the little stuff].
Making connections between things that don't seem like they have much to do with each other.
Being in the moment.
Appreciating.
Rooting for the underdog
Watching clouds.
Getting a lot of mileage from a middling joke.
Kneading bread
Massaging.
Marathon kissing.
I can work on a car with the proviso that it's from the previous century.
End-for-end jibe a spinnaker.
Dog petting.
Partner petting
Getting a good Texas Tommy out of my dance partner.
Pronouncing "gnocchi."
The first things people usually notice about me
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Umm....possibly my butt. People have said it's nice for a guy's... "I'm up here, ladies." I say that a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Updated all the time. I'm a heavy reader, yet particular about what I read, not genre fiction. How something is written is more important than what is written. Don't have a TV, so don't know what's on though I liked BkBd on Ntflx. Movies: Luis Estrada's film El Infierno had just the right amount of black humor and pathos. Inarritu's Javier Bardem in Biutiful (sic) and anything with a good story. I love Italian movies from the 60s. Ever notice how strangely consistent the voices are in those films?? Well . . . FYI, the action was shot on location, but the actors' lines were recorded and dubbed later in the studio.... Fascinating. . . .
Though I like rock, I don't listen to a lot of it. Tastes are wide ranging: Classical [Mozart, Bach's Sonatas and Partitas and French Romantics], Gregorian Chants, Jazz and Blues, Cab Calloway, World music, Radio Tarifa, Torch and Twang, a la Steve Earl, and they's nuthin' better for cryin' in yr beer than The Blue Shadows' song, "Think on it". Love absolutely swingin' out to Bob Wills and jump blues, Ella and Big Joe Turner. Opera (Italian not so much the German)
Yes, I like food very much and I eat it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My curiosity. Joie de vivre. Dancing. Dogs. Dancing dogs. Coffee. Zinfandel. Words arranged poetically. Rhythm, NYTs [Science Tuesday and the Sunday Review]. Chevre. Clouds, Sun and Green Trees against a Blue Sky, Mountains, Sea, a tuned bicycle with a tail wind.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why my dog Chuck won't pee when I tell him to. Whether or not my computer is a zombie. How so few people can fk things up for so many. Yes, I'm talking about YOU, Lord Voldemort, Iago and Dick Cheney.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If its the 2nd Friday of the month, I may join the mayhem and ride in the EastBayBikePartay; other fridays, in descending order of frequency: Crewing on a sailboat. Reading, dancing, night hiking Claremont Canyon. Out on the Berkeley pier wondering how many cool fish are swimming around down there with RayBans.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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With apologies to Donna Haraway and her companion species, I shamelessly baby talk to dogs.
You should message me if
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You believe that success, whether in a creative endeavor, a dish, a relationship or good sex, is mostly just getting out of the way. You have a sense of humor. You believe that between two people, things do not necessarily have to 'feel right' right out of the box (I'm not a pair of shoes, nor are you); I ask that you take the effort to get to know me as I will you. You delight in serendipity. You can deal when things don't go as planned. You wouldn't mind awful but heartfelt love poetry being written about you.
Finally, if I don't respond to your message, it doesn't mean that I didn't read your message and give it thought; it means that while I appreciated the contact I didn't think it will be a go.

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