I am shy, honest and it takes quite a bit to gain my trust. I need honesty back from others. I am non-judgmental (for the most part), caring, empathic, and I love doing new things. I don't really like sitting in one place for too long. If I've been sitting at home all day, I want to go somewhere. I am introverted, sometimes serious, sometimes silly. I love to do things for people and I really love spending time with people I care about. I'm not real hung up on material things, I just want to be happy.

I am in a wonderful relationship with a spectacular young woman.
I'm pretty quiet around people I don't know very well, so I guess some people think I'm stuck up, I just don't always know what to say.

Also, I am polyamorous. I didn't have it up here for awhile because I was worried about nosy people causing problems for me. But now I just don't care. My partner and I have tried a poly relationship, and I would love to do so again.

To get interests on here, here's a list:

I'm into spirituality - I like to learn about different religions and thoughts of others, most any kind of music, all kinds of books, any kind of dancing, nature, animals, chatting, traveling, museums, parenting, RPG, internet, camping, I really enjoy singing. I love concerts, symphonies, drawing, surfing the net, window shopping.

I am now a mother! I have officially adopted my daughter and I am loving it.

I still really want to be a doula/childbirth educator/lactation counselor/herbalist/stay-at-home mom. I'm not quite sure how I'm going to get around to doing those things just yet. Speaking of being a mom, I think the option "I want kids" should be on the list, not just "I like kids."

I'm trying to get everything back on track and achieve my goals. I am also taking on my niece's daughter and being a mother. I love being a parent and I am looking forward to adopting her if that is the choice the state makes. I wouldn't change having her in my life. EDIT: I have adopted her, as of April 29, 2009. While she may have not been planned, she was certainly wanted. I love having her in my life and I would not change it for the world. She is a very special little girl, and I feel very blessed that she is mine.

I am also trying to find myself and know what I want out of life. EDIT: I am working for the state as an Admin Clerk (i.e. office clerk) and I really dislike it. It's very boring and I really wish to be home with my daughter. I don't really care for other people raising her. I didn't adopt her to pass her off. But

Caring, speed reading, researching, helping people (well sometimes), picking up on computer programs pretty well, learning new things, keeping an objective point of view, picking up on new things really, organizing parties, chatting, finding obscure facts/things.

I don't know, it depends I suppose. How quiet I am I guess.

A) Good in Bed, Jennifer Weiner; Watership Down, Richard Adams; books by Iris Johanson, Charlene Thompson, Suzanne Brockmann, Mercedes Lackey; Anne of Green Gables series, Redwall series, Outlander series, I liked Harry Potter and Twilight. I love most genres of books, from classical to suspense to non-fiction.

B) Hmm...I love most movie genres, just like books. I love Anne of Green Gables/Avonlea, The Emperor's New Groove, Billy Elliot, Saving Grace, Wayne's World, Six Days Seven Nights, Over the Hedge, P.S. I Love You, WALL-E....etc.

C) Once again, most genres. I go through phases where I listen to set groups or songs. About damn near anything really.

D) I am willing to try most foods. I don't like spicy foods though. I like to taste what I'm eating. I love home cooking, southern, Oriental, European...etc. I really enjoy vegetables too. Love vegetarian dishes as well.

My daughter.

life....I tend to do a lot of heavy thinking. I think about how things are, how I'd like them to be, the future....Having children.

Spending time with my family, or trying to occupy myself if I'm alone.

I don't trust easily.

You want to. I like meeting new people. And if you can be objective and non-judgmental.