I am anxious, curious, and dedicated.
My Self-Summary
I am shy, honest and it takes quite a bit to gain my trust. I need
honesty back from others. I am non-judgmental (for the most part),
caring, empathic, and I love doing new things. I don't really like
sitting in one place for too long. If I've been sitting at home all
day, I want to go somewhere. I am introverted, sometimes serious,
sometimes silly. I love to do things for people and I really love
spending time with people I care about. I'm not real hung up on
material things, I just want to be happy.
I am in a wonderful relationship with a spectacular young
woman.
I'm pretty quiet around people I don't know very well, so I guess
some people think I'm stuck up, I just don't always know what to
say.
Also, I am
polyamorous. I didn't have it up
here for awhile because I was worried about nosy people causing
problems for me. But now I just don't care. My partner and I have
tried a poly relationship, and I would love to do so again.
To get interests on here, here's a list:
I'm into
spirituality - I like to learn
about different religions and thoughts of others, most any kind of
music, all kinds of
books, any kind of
dancing,
nature,
animals,
chatting,
traveling,
museums,
parenting,
RPG,
internet,
camping, I really enjoy
singing. I love
concerts,
symphonies,
drawing,
surfing the net,
window
shopping.
I am now a mother! I have officially adopted my daughter and I am
loving it.
What I’m doing with my life
I still really want to be a
doula/
childbirth educator/lactation
counselor/herbalist/stay-at-home mom. I'm not quite sure how I'm
going to get around to doing those things just yet. Speaking of
being a mom, I think the option "I want kids" should be on the
list, not just "I like kids."
I'm trying to get everything back on track and achieve my goals. I
am also taking on my niece's daughter and being a mother. I love
being a parent and I am looking forward to adopting her if that is
the choice the state makes. I wouldn't change having her in my
life. EDIT: I have adopted her, as of April 29, 2009. While she may
have not been planned, she was certainly wanted. I love having her
in my life and I would not change it for the world. She is a very
special little girl, and I feel very blessed that she is
mine.
I am also trying to find myself and know what I want out of life.
EDIT: I am working for the state as an Admin Clerk (i.e. office
clerk) and I really dislike it. It's very boring and I really wish
to be home with my daughter. I don't really care for other people
raising her. I didn't adopt her to pass her off. But
I’m really good at
Caring, speed
reading, researching, helping people
(well sometimes), picking up on computer programs pretty well,
learning new things, keeping an objective point of view, picking up
on new things really, organizing parties, chatting, finding obscure
facts/things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know, it depends I suppose. How quiet I am I guess.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
A) Good in Bed, Jennifer Weiner; Watership Down, Richard Adams;
books by Iris Johanson, Charlene Thompson, Suzanne Brockmann,
Mercedes Lackey; Anne of Green Gables series, Redwall series,
Outlander series, I liked Harry Potter and Twilight. I love most
genres of books, from classical to suspense to non-fiction.
B) Hmm...I love most movie genres, just like books. I love Anne of
Green Gables/Avonlea, The Emperor's New Groove, Billy Elliot,
Saving Grace, Wayne's World, Six Days Seven Nights, Over the Hedge,
P.S. I Love You, WALL-E....etc.
C) Once again, most genres. I go through phases where I listen to
set groups or songs. About damn near anything really.
D) I am willing to try most foods. I don't like spicy foods though.
I like to taste what I'm eating. I love home cooking, southern,
Oriental, European...etc. I really enjoy vegetables too. Love
vegetarian dishes as well.
The six things I could never do without
My daughter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
life....I tend to do a lot of heavy thinking. I think about how
things are, how I'd like them to be, the future....Having children.
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with my family, or trying to occupy myself if I'm
alone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I don't trust easily.
You should message me if
You want to. I like meeting new people. And if you can be objective
and non-judgmental.