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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 8:00am
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I love, in no particularly order: climbing mountains; wild swimming; urban exploration; cycling; discussion/debates/arguments; left wing politics; alternative lifestyles; humour that arises from situations; history (and the learning of pointless facts related to it); architecture that is fascinating and interesting regardless of the period; travelling to countries about which we hear a lot, but know very little; being as hospitable as I can, although I find this takes constant effort in the society in which we live; meeting and finding out about new people; hiking in the wilderness; trains and interesting journeys; being barefoot and wearing as few clothes as possible in the summer.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently working as a barrister and living on a boat on the Regent's Canal in London and trying to keep up with the former and stop the latter from sinking.

At the same time, am trying to see as much of London as I can and to experience as many things as possible, as well as getting out into the countryside when I can.

My plan over the next few years is to save up enough to buy a piece of land. Eventually I'd love to live in an intentional community with lovely, interesting people.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My bookshelf is a jumbled mixture of books on history, swimming, architecture, travel guides, left-wing and anarchists texts, antique books, guides to building eco homes, poetry and a stray law text book or two.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(1) Some natural water, ideally in a beautiful place, to swim in.

(2) Being initimate with others, whether emotionally or physically.

(3) Travelling and exploring the world.

(4) Having new experiences or meeting new people on a regular basis.

(5) Good friends to share crazy experiences with.

(6) Wilderness to retreat to when the city becomes too much.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the ideal political and economic system would be; death (how else can you figure out the meaning of, or your purpose for, life?); how to fix the latest problem on the boat; what I am going to say in court tomorrow; loopholes; planning my next unusual experience; where is my next trip out of London going to be?; the nature of consciousness and the self; the element of spirituality which falls between religion and scientific rationalism and the occasional glimpses of this that I'm given.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either at a house or squat party; at a festival or Rumpus-style party, wandering/looking down upon the streets of the city; or out in the country camped by a river or on a beach.
You should message me if
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You want to wander the city with me while we regale each other with random facts and stories; either with our without alteration of consciousness.

If you want to go urban exploring in London- lets take each other to new places!

If you think you can fuck someone just once and still have an incredible experience and connection. Also if you agree that spooning and cuddling are as important in promiscuous sex as the fucking part...

If you want to do an adventure swap- I'll take you on a weird/ unusual experience, if you take me on one.

You think dates consisting of 'drinks' or 'coffee' are somewhat on the dull side.

You're interested in a three-way/ non-monogamous/ polyamorous/ non-conventional relationship.