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28 M London, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:19am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
I love, in no particularly order: climbing mountains; wild swimming; urban exploration; cycling; discussion/debates/arguments; left wing politics; alternative lifestyles; humour that arises from situations; history (and the learning of pointless facts related to it); architecture that is fascinating and interesting regardless of the period; travelling to countries about which we hear a lot, but know very little; being as hospitable as I can, although I find this takes constant effort in the society in which we live; meeting and finding out about new people; hiking in the wilderness; trains and interesting journeys; being barefoot and wearing as few clothes as possible in the summer.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently working as a barrister and living on a boat on the Regent's Canal in London and trying to keep up with the former and stop the latter from sinking.

At the same time, am trying to see as much of London as I can and to experience as many things as possible, as well as getting out into the countryside when I can.

My plan over the next few years is to save up enough to buy a piece of land and build my own house, ideally circular and out of mud.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My bookshelf is a jumbled mixture of books on history, swimming, architecture, travel guides, left-wing and anarchists texts, antique books, guides to building eco homes, poetry and a stray law text book or two.
The six things I could never do without
(1) Some natural water, ideally in a beautiful place, to swim in.

(2) Being initimate with others, whether emotionally or physically.

(3) Travelling and exploring the world.

(4) Having new experiences or meeting new people on a regular basis.

(5) Good friends to share crazy experiences with.

(6) Wilderness to retreat to when the city becomes too much.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What the ideal political and economic system would be; death (how else can you figure out the meaning of, or your purpose for, life?); how to fix the latest problem on the boat; what I am going to say in court tomorrow; loopholes; planning my next unusual experience; how beautiful/ugly the world is and how kind/cruel people are. Where is my next trip out of London going to be?
On a typical Friday night I am
Either at a house or squat party; wandering/looking down upon the streets of the city; or out in the country camped by a river or on a beach.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think my sexuality. I should probably have told my mum before putting it on here, but there you go.

I think I have too many photos of me and my cat on my profile
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You want to wander the city with me while we regale each other with random facts and stories; either with our without alteration of consciousness.

You're trying to find another piece of the puzzle:

“Admit it. You aren’t like them. You’re not even close. You may occasionally dress yourself up as one of them, watch the same mindless television shows as they do, maybe even eat the same fast food sometimes. But it seems that the more you try to fit in, the more you feel like an outsider, watching the “normal people” as they go about their automatic existences. For every time you say club passwords like “Have a nice day” and “Weather’s awful today, eh?”, you yearn inside to say forbidden things like “Tell me something that makes you cry” or “What do you think deja vu is for?”. Face it, you even want to talk to that girl in the elevator. But what if that girl in the elevator (and the balding man who walks past your cubicle at work) are thinking the same thing? Who knows what you might learn from taking a chance on conversation with a stranger? Everyone carries a piece of the puzzle. Nobody comes into your life by mere coincidence. Trust your instincts. Do the unexpected. Find the others…”

If you think that, whatever alanis says, meeting the man of your dreams and then meeting his beautiful wife, is not ironic because you could just fuck them both.

If you can give me advice on building a house from natural materials, in return for scintillating company or free boat rides.

If you want to go urban exploring in London- lets take each other to new places!

If you think you can fuck someone just once and still have an incredible experience and connection. Also if you agree that spooning and cuddling are as important in promiscuous sex as the fucking part...

If you want to do an adventure swap- I'll take you on a weird/ unusual experience, if you take me on one.

You think dates consisting of 'drinks' or 'coffee' are somewhat on the dull side.

You are beautiful enough to appeal to my superficial side and make me overlook all of the above.