I am a bisexual polyamorous woman married to a man. We have an open relationship that works very well for us. Not scared off yet? Awesome...read on...

I enjoy long conversations that don't end up where they started, scouring thrift stores for treasure, reading, writing overly-personal poetry, dancing like crazy to almost any music, drinking wine, and eating everything. I try to embrace life as it arrives, but I try to make time to stop and over-analyze things occassionally. I am without doubt a hedonist.

For those who care, I'm 5'1", size 8ish with grown-up curves. I'm looking to meet bisexual or lesbian women of any age. No men, please.

I have a degree in English, but I'm currently making my parents very proud by working as a baker/pastry chef, which I only began doing about 4 years ago. Working as a pastry chef has provided me with the most unique creative outlet I've ever encountered. I love it very much and am constantly learning and finding new ways to apply my skills.

making up dirty haiku (also not-dirty haiku, but what's the fun in that?)

walking barefoot on any surface

making custards

intense eye contact

my eyes? maybe if we meet you could tell me...

BOOKS:
-anything by Ursula K. LeGuin, but esp. "The Dispossessed"
-"Loose Woman" by Sandra Cisneros
-"American Psycho" by Bret Easton Ellis
-"Stranger in a Strange Land" by Robert Heinlen
- anything by Raymond Carver, esp. "Will You Please Be Quiet Please"
-Emily Dickinson, Allen Ginsburg, Mark Strand, Jorge Luis Borges
-"The Road to Wellville" by T.C. Boyle
-"Slackjaw" and "Quitting the Nairobi Trio" by Jim Knipfel

MOVIES:
Hedwig and the Angry Inch, The Princess Bride, Secretary, any and all Hayao Miyazaki, esp. Kiki and Howl's Moving Castle, Silence of the Lambs, Harry Potter, Shawn of the Dead, Snatch, Tim Burton movies, Harold and Maude, Benny and Joon

FOOD:
I could never pick or name 'favorite' foods. Nothing is ruled out, nothing is off limits. Much like the rest of life, I'll try anything once. I do love exploring all types of authentic cuisine. And I LOVE eating with my hands.

1. Coffee
2. A notebook (and accompanying pen)
3. vanilla beans
4. my own pillow
5. my family
6. silliness

...you mean it. If you have stories to tell and want to listen to mine. If your tribe isn't full and your path isn't paved and you haven't stopped spinning in circles and then picking the closest road. If you still live with the spirit of looking-around. If we might be dreaming the same crazy dream.