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42 F London, Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Working on university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
I suppose the first thing that I should mention is that I am Poly. For some this is a HUGE deal, for others, not so much.

For those who may not know, polyamourous is the state of having multiple romantically committed relationships at the same time, with the consent of all partners involved. I just moved to London and am living with my partner. I suppose the second thing I should mention is that my dynamic with my partner is of a D/s nature. I am s to his D. Still here? Ok...more about me.

What am I looking for? Good question. I'm at a point in my life where it seems counter intuitive to be looking for any sort of relationship. I had cancer a few years ago (completely cured, no chance at recurrence) which interrupted my university life. So now I'm still trying to get back on my feet. I don't drive so that can also be an issue. So why am I here? What I've learned from being sick, is that life doesn't wait for you to reach out and make connections. So if there is even a tiny chance of bringing someone wonderful into my life, I will try it.

What I am NOT looking for are casual hookups.

Who am I looking for? What is physically attractive to me varies, personality tends to over shadow this. I like a guy who knows himself and while strong, is human and able to admit when he's wrong. I love to laugh. I love to be playful.

A bit about me:

I'm a geek. I love spending evenings playing Magic or WoW. Singing is a part of who I am. A day without learning something is a very bad day indeed. I'm a glass half full girl. I'm close to my family. I laugh often. I find Zombies delightful. I think friends are precious gifts. I enjoy writing. I have a love for words and language. I'm a gamer. I have a passion for film including; Japanese horror films and other scary fare, funny, scifi, fantasy and old black and white. One of my favourite things is going to see a musical or a play, the only thing better is being on stage in a musical or play. I'm active in theatre. I am most myself when I am on stage. I don't smoke.
I’m really good at
I can sing well, I'm an excellent listener and I've been told that I'm fantastic at finding the right words to cheer people up.
The first things people usually notice about me
Good question. My hair colour...not a ton of gingers out there, my height (I'm 5'2), or maybe that I smile a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have such varied taste in all of these things that it makes this difficult. Book wise I tend to gravitate towards speculative fiction but I will give anything written in English a try. My first choice in movies is usually Scifi, Horror (Love Japanese horrors), thriller or cartoons though I do also like comedys. Rom/coms are last on my list though generally if I give them a chance I find I do enjoy them, just not something I would generally choose. I am not terribly fussy when it comes to food. Last on my list would be traditional roast dinners. I don't mind them, but not a huge fan. I do like Sushi, Indian food, Middle Eastern food and chocolate. I'm also very adventurous in all things and will try anything. Musically I really don't think that there is one specific genre that I won't listen too. I like some of everything. I of course have a soft spot for Broadway as I love to sing it. I also like classical, jazz, blues, soul, country, rock, pop, R&B.
The six things I could never do without
My partner, pets, friends, books, music, new things to learn, food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. I think a lot. Plotting stories, writing music, thinking about current events.
On a typical Friday night I am
It really depends on the Friday. Could be: at rehearsal for a musical I'm in, giging with my band, out with friends, staying home and playing World of Warcraft, though lately it's been mostly at FNM.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am shy when I first meet someone. I am a total geek.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I'm looking to meet people who share similar interests or who are willing to try some of the things I enjoy as I would be willing to do the same for them. Kindness and a sense of humor are the most important things to me, if you can make me laugh or be silly, that goes a long way. Looks to me are subjective. Of course everyone wants to be with someone that they find attractive, but for me, that attraction does not need to stem from someone looking like a fitness model. If you are looking for someone to chat about music with or jam with, drop me a line, one can never have too many friends.