I'm intense, complicated, generous, fascinating, and indulgent. Oh, and modest; did I mention modest? Despite preferring to use the Oxford comma, I'm Cambridge educated - the degree was in mathematics, but most of the learning I did in those years was about getting through life. I'm a bit of a dilettante, and whilst my geek credentials have not come on much in recent years I can often be found waxing lyrical and sounding at least half-way convincing on literature, theology, ethics, politics, and so forth. I am nearly as pretentious as that makes me sound, but I do know how to laugh at myself.
I'm passionate about pleasure - I love good food, good wine, good sex, good conversation, good art - all to pretty much the same degree. I'm deeply, desperately, gloriously in love with life, and utterly in awe of the world, whilst still maintaining a dark sardonic cynicism which makes it even more entertaining.
I'm non-monogamous, and currently have one serious relationship and one casual long distance arrangement. I'm not really interested in anything else serious right now, but I'm quite keen to find some more casual partners in London.
I'm kinky, mostly submissive, but a decent enough top, if not really much of a Dom.