When I make small mistakes at work, millions of people are
impacted. Sometimes I get to read about my mistakes in mainstream
I get laid a lot. I'm not here to find more of that, but it's not
hard to find me on fetlife if that's your interest...
I find openness to be a huge
turn-on. And on the
flip-side, lack of openness can be a pretty big turn-off.
I am particularly sensitive to my cat's emotional state of mind. If
you're not nice about sharing my bed with her, she will be
I do not find short hair on women to be particularly attractive,
but I have accepted the fact that many women who I am attracted to
choose to have short hair.
I tend to be uncomfortable around people who are yelling.
I hate phone calls.
For real. I have a really hard time
carrying on meaningful conversations on the phone, especially over
bad cell phone connections. If you feel like we need to talk on the
phone before we can meet, we are not a match
I love being held. I like most forms of affection, a lot.
I enjoy (and often prefer) dates that involve more than two
I can be pretty kinky (at least by the standards of the general
population), but I don't tend to wear it on my sleeve amongst
strangers. My kink has not historically involved much in the way of
negotiated power exchange
but I have become more curious
about it recently. I am attracted to people who enjoy being
fetishized, and to people who own their sexual pleasure.
I am not particularly prone to monogamy, at least at this point in
my life. Many of my relationships have contained aspects of
polyamory, swinging, or both. These days, I have found that I am
most interested in exploring other relationships
my partner (singular)... I daydream about a
life partner with whom I can both build a family, and explore all
of the recesses of human interaction and pleasure. I would likely
be happy in a relationship described as "monogamish".
I like to get stoned. If you assume this means I spend a lot of
time sitting around on the couch with the munchies and the TV
remote, we're probably not a match.
I don't take money very seriously. If this is a problem for you and
you're not interested in stepping up to that responsibility in a
shared life, we're probably also not a match.
I think people should be nice to each other... men to women, women
to men, men to men, women to women... This seems like obvious stuff
to me, but for some reason I feel the need to put it in my profile.
I like people who think (and expect) the same. If you expect
anything else from your relationships, we might have a hard time
connecting. In a similar vein, I will only mind you talking about
your exes if you are telling me about all of the douchey things
they did to you. Putting all of this another way, I have a very low
tolerance for emotionally abusive relationships.
I love meat. Preferably barbecued or smoked, but roasted, braised,
or even pan-fried will do. I don't have to eat it with every meal,
but I can't imagine I will ever stop eating it. That said, I feel
fortunate that I live in a part of the country where I can actually
choose to buy meat that is raised under circumstances that don't
turn my stomach. It might be more expensive, but it sure does taste