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51 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:18pm
Hispanic / Latin, Other
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary

The more still we become
the more we descend from our
crystal imaginings
our man-made mirrors
sink into the tender
ferocious efficiency
of the seed

our fleshy density
our tiny eternity
the murmur
pregnant to bursting

no noise
only sound

Welcome. Thank you for visiting my site. I hope you like what you see and will drop me a line.

I am playful, tender, and tenacious
What I’m doing with my life
Struggling mightily to stay connected to the stream of history, those who are committed to using their lives to change the planet.
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile, my playfulness, sincerity, my commitment.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music that moves me (in alph order): Abbey LincolnAlbert KingArethaBjörk (Iceland)• Bob FrankeBruce Cockburn (Canada) • Buddy GuyBukka WhiteChris ChandlerDanya RiverDar WilliamsDavid RovicsDmitri Shostokovich (Russia)• Hanns Eisler (Germany)• Howling WolfIndigo GirlsJeff Lang (Australia) • John ColtraneJunior Wells & Buddy GuyLeon Chávez Teixeiro (México) • Lucinda WilliamsMartin SextonMuddy WatersPatty GriffinPatty LarkinRobert JohnsonRubén BladesShawn ColvinSigur Rós (Iceland) • Tom Prasada-RaoTom WaitsTracy ChapmanVictor Jara (Chilé)

Some poets who move me (alph): Bertolt Brecht (Germany) • César Vallejo (Perú) • James ScullyLangston HughesMarge PiercyNazim Hikmet (Turkey) • Pablo Neruda (Chile) • Philip LevineRoque Dalton (El Salvador)

Books that have influenced me (to name a few): Fanshen by William Hinton, In the Fog of the Season's End by Alex La Guma, Pedagogy of the Oppressed by Paolo Freire, Omnivore's Dilemma, by Michael Pollan. I recently finished The Brief and Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, by Junot Diaz, and am currently reading The Cross and the Arrow by Albert Maltz, an adventure novel about resistance against the Nazis. I also read The New York Times daily, Yoga Journal, and Performing Songwriter.

OK, movies: Night & Fog, Matewan; Burn! (with Marlon Brando and a conscience for once--classic); more recently, Children of Men (riveting and prescient, if flawed); on the lighter side: Groundhog Day, Quick Change, Fisher King. I'll admit I fell for Y Tu Mamá También.

I am a vegetarian--fairly vegan, although not strictly. I love to cook.
The six things I could never do without
I think I could (would have to) do without anything life might deprive me of, if it were beyond my control, but if I had any power to prevent it, I do cherish my voice, my guitar, pencil and paper, my political outlook, & my commitment to a world turned right side up.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1) uniting people of all nations; 2) the (historical) truth; 3) combatting social denial; and 4) the music that travels in every molecule of air
On a typical Friday night I am
Listening to music, seeing a concert, singing and playing guitar, or sometimes some restorative yoga…
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
online dating is on the precipice of falling into a shopping mall
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you care, if you dare.