I don't take myself or life seriously, and I love to laugh at myself at any chance.😀 I make mistakes, tons of them, but I try to learn from them and better myself in the long run. I like to experience life, learn new things, push my limits and build memories. I have had boats, planes, multiple houses and all the material "stuff" and I shunned all that to live a much more balanced and simpler life! My measure of success is how successful my kids are...period, end of story! (Each and every one of them is a success story in their own right.) I am outgoing, gregarious, a wild and crazy kinda guy, yet I enjoy the simple things like watching a sunset, or sitting by the fire with a glass of wine (yeah right...probably spill it all over the fake bear skin rug), or sitting in bed watching a movie or reading a novel (dang he knows how to read!).
I have been very fortunate in my life so I like to give back to those less fortunate in terms of my time and knowledge! Hopefully, you are of the same persuasion!
My ideal match...(one that lights a fire!!!!) hmm... well she will not be afraid to experiment and push her, and my limits ( I have no limits!), she is intelligent (intelligence is the biggest turn-on for me), wild, sexy, crazy, zany, soft, sensitive, educated (prefer experience over books)...a woman who can just be herself and not put on a facade! One that isn't chasing fame and fortune, only a man that compliments her! I am looking for a firecracker with a short fuse! (Laughing) I want a woman who will place me above all others, (INCLUDING HER KIDS AND HORSES!!!) and I will do the same for her. This doesn't mean that I take the place of your kids, no! They will always have a special place in your life. It means that we are a priority to each other, and are role models for our kids showing them how two people in love, do it right!
I want someone into me full time... 24/7/365, but that doesn't mean we can't have our alone time! I think it good to be apart for the sake of realizing just how much you miss being around each other.
I want to be the center of your universe and I will make you the center of mine. I want a lover, pal, buddy and friend. I am not looking for someone identical to me, no...I am looking for someone to compliment me. Someone with their own viewpoint and a willingness to stand up for it. I am looking for the missing piece to my jigsaw puzzle that makes the two of us complete and allows the world to see our beautiful picture. Are you the missing piece? If you are HER, I will never take you for granted...no task is YOURS or MINE...it's OURS...whether it's doing the laundry, making the bed, mowing the lawn or mucking the stalls...the joy and fun of having such tasks is that it gives US a venue to have more fun...be crazy..spontaneous...touch each other! One that can listen and put herself in my shoes and me in hers.
I am an outdoors kinda guy, at home wherever life takes me whether winter, summer, spring or fall. My woman must like the outdoors too! (AND SHE CAN'T BE AFRAID TO PEE IN THE WOODS!) I like all the outdoors has to offer in terms of enjoyment, recreation, sport or just takin' in the scenery. Yet, I do well under a roof too! I can clean myself up and dance the night away!
I am in shape and plan to keep it that way. I cycle, run, workout in the gym, hike, ski and do just about any thing else that elevates the heart rate and tones the muscles! But...I'm not a workout junkie. I stay in shape to afford myself the maximum opportunities to enjoy life and experience all that it has to offer.
I split my time between San Diego and my ranch on the central coast and make the trek every week to ten days. So meeting and dating you, whether you live in SoCal or CenCal, is not a problem! And if we hit it off I can work magic to make everything right!
Music: I like it all...it’s always around me 24/7! Life is rhythmic...deal with it! Moods dictate genre...I have many moods! But I gotta tell ya; Marvin Gaye (Sexual Healing), Teddy Pendergrass (Love TKO), Anita Baker (Same Ole Love), Barry White / Tina Turner (Never In Your Wildest Dreams), Luther Vandross (Always and Forever), Akon (Beautiful), Hall and Oats (Do it For Love), Kenny Rogers (Buy Me a Rose), Mary J. Blige (My Everything), Lionel Ritchie / Akon (Just Go), Bonnie Raitt (You) put me in the mood to fly you to the dark side of the moon and make you howl like a lone wolf (LMAO)!!!! Ohhhhhhhhhhh yeah babeeeee! Yet Rachimoninov's Concerto #2 in C minor on a Sunday morning with a glass of champagne, while feeding the horses...yeah that will do too!
Just so ya know...I like to take it slow...friends first...pals second...buddies third...then lovers! It's the journey, not the destination:-)
I'm old school. I like to open doors, pull out chairs, send flowers on a whim and do whatever comes to mind to make you feel warm, safe and appreciated.