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46 Bellevue, WA Man


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  • Ages 27–47
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Last online
Jan 30, 2014
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Has a kid
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I chart my own course in most things. Serial entrepreneur. Got it honestly from my dad.

I also love the whole process of movie making. I'm a moderately good screenwriter and editor, but my love is directing. Managing a cast and crew, finding ways to get better performances from actors, getting locations to work for the shot. These are great fun.

So of course, I adore SIFF. Seattle International Film Festival, but you knew that already, right?

I am thoughtful, friendly, and curious.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work from home with my own software business. Basically, my job is I come up with new ideas for software, build it, then my business partner sells/licenses it to other large businesses. It lets me work from home/coffee shops, and I love the independence.

I'm married, in an open/poly marriage. My wife and I communicate very well, and give each other the freedom to date others. It works well for us.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking. My specialties are chicken curry, cheese fondue, tarte tatin, thai meatballs. And I can improv something out of bare cupboards.

Film directing, skiing, sailing, scuba diving, chess, strategy games.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm easy to chat with, smart, well mannered.

I have a slight southern accent from my upbringing in Georgia.

I'm confident, but not cocky.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Greek classics, The Stand, WWII history, The Singularity Is Near, Rebel Without a Crew, Roald Dahl stories, The Lexus and the Olive Tree (Anything by Thomas Friedman really), Douglas Adams, Dune, Being There

Spanish Prisoner, Brazil, The Limey, spaghetti westerns, Heat, The Big Lebowski, Larry Sanders Show, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Burn After Reading, Gattaca, Frantic, The Man Who Would Be King, House of Games, Lovejoy, Hudsucker Proxy, Amelie

Steely Dan, Zero 7, Miles Davis, Suzanne Vega, Shriekback, Cocteau Twins, Janis Ian, Kate Bush, Keb Mo, The Kinks, Randy Newman, Rush, Squirrel Nut Zippers, Taj Mahal, Pink Martini, Sasha Lazard

A great ribeye with bearnaise, curry, sushi, crab legs. In Seattle, I love Tango, El Camino, Monsoon, Canlis, El Gaucho, Kingfish Cafe.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hot showers, red wine, good companionship, my friends, great food, banter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Current issues in the world. I appreciate and am comfortable with complexity and ambiguity. Two traits that define our world's recent past, yet seem intolerable for many people.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner with friends, or at home reading/catching up on sci-fi tv.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll get back to you.
You should message me if
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You're sharp, sarcastic and a great communicator.