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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:32am
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Not at all
Judaism but it’s not important
Might want kids
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Entertaining to a fault, always there when needed.

I am smart, funny and warm.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a playwright and columnist. I also perform and have directed for most of my career, and I work full-time producing audio books for a major publishing house.

I've been sober since 2011, but I don't need you to be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
conversation. I'm a great listener and world class talker.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My glasses, I guess. I do look pretty different in contacts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I love gay fiction of the 1970s and Show Biz biographies/memoirs. All-time faves are Gone With The Wind and The Hours.

Movies: Annie Hall , All That Jazz , The Wizard of Oz , Revenge of the Nerds , South Park: Bigger, Longer, Uncut, Tarnation , Hedwig and the Angry Inch , Breakfast Club , Stonewall , Ferris Bueller's Day Off , I Could Go On Singing

Shows (in no particular order): Dynasty, Absolutely Fabulous, Shameless, Girls, Nurse Jackie, Homeland, Sex And The City, The Sopranos, Will & Grace, Roseanne, The Golden Girls, All In The Family, The Wonder Years, The Office (American version, sorry 'bout it!), I Love Lucy, The Simpsons, Real Housewives of New Jersey, Downton Abbey, CAN I GET BACK TO YOU ON THIS?

Music: Besides showtunes, I love classic rock, motown, 80s, disco, 60s and 70s singer-songwriters...

Food: I love sushi, Chinese, Italian, Jewfood, French, Thai, Middle Eastern, Mexican, pretty open-minded in this department.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My phone, my computer, my TV/DVR, my family, my best friend's almost-two-year-old and Patti LuPone.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my career, historical Tony Award injustices and how much candy corn would make up a 2,000 calorie-a-day diet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either out with my friends or cooking at home - I love dinner parties!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty open about most things...
You should message me if
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you like to laugh and enjoy great conversation.