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47 Jersey City, NJ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–59
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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6′ 5″ (1.96m)
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My self-summary
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This profile sort of an experiment. I'm looking to dabble in D/s. When done well, it's a fun dynamic. Until now, I've always been the D, but lately I've curious about exploring the s side of the coin. So I'm seeking a Dominant woman to serve, worship, amuse and entertain. Doesn't need to be a pro (preferably not) or even a woman who has experience with this stuff. Any fun woman who is even a tiny bit curious in exploring this would be welcome. Send a message if you'd like to chat about it. Chances are I'd enjoy pleasing you...
What I’m doing with my life
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Like 90% of the people here on the cupid, I'm a successful creative type. Does anybody in this town work retail? I do music, animation and motion graphics. If you watch PBS you might have seen some of my work. If you went to live shows in NYC 1997-2009 you might have seen me play. If you listen to WFMU you've probably heard my music.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My presidential gravitas
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the letter 'A'
a belt to keep my pants up
plastic tarps
cat food
quarters for laundry
nail clippers
oh, and my I-phone. Just kidding.
pockets. seriously.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why everybody can't be happy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Jiggling the change in my pocket...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You should message me if
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You're an artist, musician, photographer, writer, performance artist, yoga instructor - or even if you're just studying to be one, lawyer or work for a non-profit. If you're unemployed- that's ok too. If you enjoy going to Burning Man or doing pilates- please message me. It's also ok if you work in the fashion industry or work behind the scenes in the entertainment industry. Jewelry designers are welcome. Actresses/singers are good. Working in the finance field is fine. Retail too. MD's, RN's or women in the medical arts are encouraged to message me as well. If you're a professional comedian, sorry, I'm not interested. Amateur comedians are fine. Dancers and educators will be happily received. Childcare providers, food service workers, and bartenders as well. Models, waitresses, and social workers get preferred treatment and go to the front of the line.

You have a wicked, but playful dominant streak and your looking to enjoy a fun, fit and sane submissive man.

You'd enjoy having a house boy serve/amuse you. In a depraved way....

You can handle fun.

You seek gender based vengeance.

You're looking to experiment with CFNM

You've never done anything like this before, but you've been curious...