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38 • Oakland, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–38
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 25
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Used up
- Strictly anything
- When drinking
- Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
- Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
On any given day I don't know if I'm going to be a wide eyed southern boy or a jaded city kid. One year will see me working search and rescue or turning a wrench and the next doing web design or restructuring small businesses. The only two constants are my down to the bone loyalty and how far out of the way I will go to help anyone in need. I guess the best way to summarize who I am is to say I'm the guy who pulls over in the pouring rain when you break down a hundred miles from anywhere to change your tire and slides in a joke just at the right moment that makes you laugh no matter how bad things are.
I am mad, bad, and dangerous to know
My dream job would be using my skills in developing areas bringing the internet to the people who need it most. I don't really care about politics but if you asked me to point to the thing I think is most important I would say I want to go to Pakistan and figure out a way to get a computer with an internet connection into the hands of every girl who wants to learn. And after that I would probably be a junkie about going to places where people wanted to kill me for helping kids learn.
Vanishing Point. Casablanca. Dr. Strangelove. The Bad and the Beautiful. Time Bandits. The Quiet Man. Miyezaki. Hong Kong crime dramas. John Wayne. Lana Turner. Ride the Pink Pony. And of course my favorites, three am insomnia driven cult flicks. "Repo man never sleeps".
As for books I quite literally(see what I did there) don't leave the house without one. I read when I smoke, when I eat, if I am doing anything that doesn't require two hands I am reading. I mostly read vintage sci-fi these days and non-fiction instructionals on how to make everything from clothes to robots(yes I can sew and yes I can make robots).
Music is a loaded question. I listen to everything from Slayer to Glenn Miller. I hated living in Nashville and all of the music that comes out of it. But I tend to be alt country and Americana. Most of the artists that show up at Hardly Strictly Blue Grass tend to show up on my ipod.
Growing up on really bland food and in some cases really disgusting food I learned how to cook out of self defense. And I love to cook but rarely cook for myself unless I feel like biscuits and gravy on a Saturday Morning. The only international foods I haven't tried are Laotian, south east African, and from eastern Europe. So far the only one I haven't liked is Filipino. And I like spicy food from time to time especially if I can convince the waiter to bring me what they consider spicy not bland American spicy. But my one constant is I am a breakfast anytime fiend which means brunch is my one true food love.
Three of the vertebrae in my neck are fused, I have two herniated disks in my lower back, and a normal man would be screaming like a little girl from the amount of pain I wake up in every day. A few years from now I'm going to have to strap a cane to my bike but as long as I can still walk I will still ride.
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