I am lucky to have a full life. But, I still try to fit a few things in just for me. I paint. I write. I lift weights and run. I am the most fit round person you will ever find!
My philosophy on life is simple, I try to lead my life by example. This way there is no confusion. I say what I mean and do what I say, always trying to be the best person I can be. I hope, that when my kids are grown, they will honestly be able to say that I was never a hypocrite. That there was never do I as I say not as I do.
It is important to clarify tho that there is more than one correct way to climb a mountain. Getting there is not as important as the journey. My path is just that... mine. It is no more or less important than anyone else's path. I believe in being true to who we individually are.
The question that remains... what I am looking for? I am polyamorous by nature and happily married to another open minded, fantastic person, jugglingben. I also do not like to define things - especially before I even know who the players are. I guess what I am looking to meet people, to find like minded friends and some blurring of the lines so to speak. Beyond that, I am open, but it is one foot in front of the other. I can honestly say that I do not look at people as anatomy. We are more than our sexual organs. I look at the person as a whole. If I was just after an orgasm, I have my husband and several vibrators that would do the trick just fine! So back to what I said before I got on the orgasm tangent... I am looking to meet like minded people, getting to know them, if it feels right, the blurring of the lines and fun and if not, then just some really good friends. Intimacy and connections, not necessarily sex, is what is paramount. The rest follows it's own unique course.
I am off-beat, creative, and laugh a lot!