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willowshadow

42 / F / Bisexual / Married

Bangor, Pennsylvania

Her Details

Last Online
Jul 19, 2011
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
So this space says to talk about me... well, I am a very eclectic individual. I am a very loving wife and mother of three. My husband and children and by far the most important people in my life. I am also a friend/daughter/sister/worker/neighbor/teacher/student and many, many more things. But underneath all this, I am still the same person I was when I was ten... honest, outgoing, goofy, creative, talkative, curious, loving, sensitive, fun, empathetic, wild...

I am lucky to have a full life. But, I still try to fit a few things in just for me. I paint. I write. I lift weights and run. I am the most fit round person you will ever find!

My philosophy on life is simple, I try to lead my life by example. This way there is no confusion. I say what I mean and do what I say, always trying to be the best person I can be. I hope, that when my kids are grown, they will honestly be able to say that I was never a hypocrite. That there was never do I as I say not as I do.

It is important to clarify tho that there is more than one correct way to climb a mountain. Getting there is not as important as the journey. My path is just that... mine. It is no more or less important than anyone else's path. I believe in being true to who we individually are.

The question that remains... what I am looking for? I am polyamorous by nature and happily married to another open minded, fantastic person, jugglingben. I also do not like to define things - especially before I even know who the players are. I guess what I am looking to meet people, to find like minded friends and some blurring of the lines so to speak. Beyond that, I am open, but it is one foot in front of the other. I can honestly say that I do not look at people as anatomy. We are more than our sexual organs. I look at the person as a whole. If I was just after an orgasm, I have my husband and several vibrators that would do the trick just fine! So back to what I said before I got on the orgasm tangent... I am looking to meet like minded people, getting to know them, if it feels right, the blurring of the lines and fun and if not, then just some really good friends. Intimacy and connections, not necessarily sex, is what is paramount. The rest follows it's own unique course.

I am off-beat, creative, and laugh a lot!

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What I’m doing with my life
I am doing pretty much what I wanted to do. I am married to a wonderful man who gets me on every level and is side by side with me in decisions we make - both individually and together. Communication and honesty is key. I have the three best kids in the world who we are raising to be free, independant thinkers. I am a teacher, so I get to give forward to the future of the world - children. I am spritual not religious. At school, in P.C. terms, I explain that I am earth based, lol. In real life terms, I am a spritual person and I am pagan.

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I’m really good at
multi-tasking, listening, creative thinking, being a mom/wife, having fun, living life to the fullest

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The first things people usually notice about me
Depends who you ask. In my thinner days, it may have been my boobs. Now in my rounder days, it still may be my boobs, lol. If you are looking upwards, it may be my eyes or smile - but probably I will have you laughing, so lets go with my sense of humor.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like things that make me laugh or shut off the brain from heavy life stuff. I am open to most things and have eclectic taste.

Books: Smutty, easy reading romance.

Movies: Being John Malkavich (sp?), Galaxy Quest, LOR trilogy, The Secretary, Dune, Twin Peaks Fire Walk with Me, Harry Potter Movies, Zack and Miri make a Porno, Donnie Darko, Rocky Horror Picture Show - brain drawing a blank - will add more!

TV: Lost, Fringe, Stargate (any of them), How I Met your Mother - mostly Sci Fi or should I now say SyFy?

Music: OMG - much - I like Tom Petty, Leanard Cohen, Abba, Green Velvet, The Crystal Method, Pink Floyd, Garbage, Radiohead - and way, way more - just trying to show some different variety. Always open to new, but good sound.

Food: breakfast food, Indian food - especially Paneer Mahkani with a nice Naan bread, Falafel, Chinese food, Italian food and of course proper chocolate (British Galaxy comes to mind), a Scottish soda called Irn Bru, and some icecream in occasion.

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The six things I could never do without
My family, coffee, water, computer, a sense of humor, freedom

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think it depends on the day!

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On a typical Friday night I am
I am hanging at home w/ family or with some friends. I enjoy a good camp fire with some wine or beer & good company while the rugrats play. (We have a fire pit and a decent size yard.) When the weather is nice, you may find me camping or at a fun music festival.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You'll have to get to know me to find out!

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I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 27-66
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
you are feeling brave... (insert evil laugh here...)... No, seriously, why not?

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