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willowtara705

21 / F / Gay / Single

New York, New York

Her Details

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Ethnicity
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
i am a queer, tea and coffee-loving, craft beer-drinking, rainbow sea otter who likes to bake things.

(i have a baking tumblr: fuck yeah queer baking)

i'm a bay area native and miss the california sunshine, but for now i'm still at school here in ny.
What I’m doing with my life
finding a temporary home for my sanity while i get an MA in women's history.
I’m really good at
being everyone's therapist.
naming countries and Buffy episodes.
baking?

refusing to put up with cissexist, racist, classist, heterosexist, sexist, ablist, and sizist/body-shaming bullshit.
The first things people usually notice about me
the "i don't know what else to do with my face so i'm totally smiling right now" smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
acoustic guitars, lady vocalists, angry girl music of the indie rock persuasion. often things that happened before 90s ended. this encompasses many of my standards for music, although i do have a vast array of musical tastes.

the current soundtrack to my life:
indigo girls, tracy chapman, chris pureka, the murmurs, ani difranco, some missy higgins.

things i have read multiple times and still love:
assata shakur's autobiography, the bell jar, the unbearable lightness of being, la casa de bernarda alba, zami: a new spelling of my name.
i used to work at shakespeare camp.
i like flannery o'connor.
and also poetry, especially friendships like audre lorde and adrienne rich.

tv:
joss whedon. (by which i mainly mean buffy, but i always love joss).
i used to watch glee so i could be up-to-date on the latest racist, transphobic, fat-shaminh, singing and dancing sensation but gave up a while ago.
friends. friday night lights. bones. twin peaks. my so-called life. lip service. daria. the l-word. misfits. lost girl.

give me queer films (especially better than chocolate!)
give me cuban films.
give me 10 things i hate about you and across the universe.
give me john hughes.
you've made me very happy.
The six things I could never do without
the people i love and trust.
baking time.
acoustic guitars.
notebook.
queers.
sunshine.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to be a better person.
how to be a better friend.
how to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
maybe in my room doing homework, maybe out to dinner, maybe drinking with some friends, maybe laying in bed listening to jill sobule's "rock me to sleep" on repeat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i sleep with two stuffed animals on my bed.
they are adorable.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 20–26
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
just message me!
i like talking to people.

also if you like talking about gender. or queerness. or cuba. or cuban film. or queer films. or anything at all.