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willowtara705

22 F Yonkers, NY

My Details

Last Online
Apr 18
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
~~note~~ i'm heading back to the bay area at the end of may, so if you want a spring fling, i'm your gal (unless you're heading westward too?)

i'm a queer, tea and coffee-loving, craft beer-drinking, rainbow sea otter who likes to bake things.

(i have a baking tumblr: fuck yeah queer baking)
(i also have a normal tumblr: colorfulacoustic)

i'm a bay area native and miss the california sunshine, but for now i'm still at school here in ny.
What I’m doing with my life
finding a temporary home for my sanity while i get an MA in women's history.

i'm writing about queer self-representation and community-building on tumblr. if you wanted to talk with me about that :D

also, i'm planning a cross-country road trip for the summer. if you want to be friends and then be a travel buddy.
I’m really good at
being everyone's therapist.
naming countries and Buffy episodes.
baking

refusing to put up with cissexist, racist, classist, heterosexist, sexist, ablist, and sizist/body-shaming bullshit while still trying to be a loving, conscious, caring, understanding, gentle human being?
The first things people usually notice about me
the "i don't know what else to do with my face so i'm totally smiling right now" smile and chuckle.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
acoustic guitars, lady vocalists, angry girl music of the indie rock persuasion.
literally just give me queer women/people in general making songs and i'm happy.
the current soundtrack to my life:
the murmurs. dar williams. tracy chapman. chris pureka. hannah & maggie. nervous but excited. k's choice (except for that one extremely transphobic song) the indigo girls (though i'm mad at them about not making a statement for trans women at michfest), ani difranco (but i'm sort of upset with her right now too). missy higgins. harry nilsson (he's not queer but darn is his voice pretty).

things i have read multiple times and still love:
assata shakur's autobiography, the bell jar, the unbearable lightness of being, la casa de bernarda alba, zami: a new spelling of my name.
i used to work at shakespeare camp.
i like flannery o'connor.
and also poetry, especially friendships like audre lorde and adrienne rich.

tv:
joss whedon. (by which i mainly mean buffy, but i always love joss. also, yes, i have seen his "genderism" speech and no i did not like it). parenthood. friends. torchwood. my little pony: friendship is magic. friday night lights. bones. twin peaks. my so-called life. lip service. daria. the l-word. misfits. lost girl. true blood. orange is the new black. nashville. american horror story (still haven't finished asylum so no spoilies!). parks and recreation.

films:
if it's queer i'll love it/at least have a lot of things to say about it (my fave: better than chocolate. least fave: kissing jessica stein).
cuban films.
john hughes.
cheesy romantic comedies.
10 things i hate about you and across the universe.
The six things I could never do without
the people i love and trust.
baking time.
acoustic guitars.
notebook.
queers.
sunshine.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to be a better person.
how to be a better friend.
how to be?
On a typical Friday night I am
maybe in my room doing homework, maybe out to dinner, maybe drinking with some friends, maybe laying in bed listening to jill sobule's "rock me to sleep" on repeat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i sleep with two stuffed animals on my bed.
they are adorable.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 21–27
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are Leisha Hailey circa 1997.

but also if you want to hang out in real life and grab a coffee or something instead of just sending messages on okc!

in general, feel free message me!
i like talking to people.

i especially like talking about gender. or queerness. or cuba. or cuban film. or queer films. or anything at all, actually.