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23 F Menlo Park, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like women
  • Ages 21–27
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:06am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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back in the bay after five years at school in ny!

i'm a queer, tea and coffee-loving, craft beer-drinking, rainbow sea otter who likes to bake things.

(i have a baking tumblr: fuck yeah queer baking)
(i also have a normal tumblr: colorfulacoustic)

i'm a bay area native, spent five years in new york doing some undergrad/grad school shenanigans, and now i'm on my way back to the california sun.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
just got my master's in women's history.
finished my summer job and am trying to figure out what comes after that!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being everyone's therapist.
naming countries and Buffy episodes.

refusing to put up with cissexist, racist, classist, heterosexist, sexist, ablist, and sizist/body-shaming bullshit while still trying to be a loving, conscious, caring, understanding, gentle human being?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
the "i don't know what else to do with my face so i'm totally smiling right now" smile and chuckle.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
acoustic guitars, lady vocalists, angry girl music of the indie rock persuasion.
literally just give me queer women/people in general making songs and i'm happy.
the current soundtrack to my life:
the murmurs. dar williams. tracy chapman. chris pureka. hannah & maggie. nervous but excited. k's choice (except for that one extremely transphobic song) the indigo girls (though i'm mad at them about not making a statement for trans women at michfest), ani difranco (but i'm sort of upset with her right now too). missy higgins. harry nilsson (he's not queer but darn is his voice pretty).

things i have read multiple times and still love:
assata shakur's autobiography, the bell jar, the unbearable lightness of being, la casa de bernarda alba, zami: a new spelling of my name.
i used to work at shakespeare camp.
i like flannery o'connor.
and also poetry, especially friendships like audre lorde and adrienne rich.

joss whedon. (by which i mainly mean buffy, but i always love joss. also, yes, i have seen his "genderism" speech and no i did not like it). parenthood. friends. torchwood. my little pony: friendship is magic. friday night lights. bones. twin peaks. my so-called life. lip service. daria. the l-word. misfits. lost girl. true blood. orange is the new black. nashville. american horror story (still haven't finished asylum so no spoilies!). parks and recreation.

if it's queer i'll love it/at least have a lot of things to say about it (my fave: better than chocolate. least fave: kissing jessica stein).
cuban films.
john hughes.
cheesy romantic comedies.
10 things i hate about you and across the universe.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the people i love and trust.
baking time.
acoustic guitars.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to be a better person.
how to be a better friend.
how to be?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
maybe in my room reading/watching netflix, maybe out to dinner, maybe drinking with some friends, maybe laying in bed listening to jill sobule's "rock me to sleep" on repeat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i sleep with two stuffed animals on my bed.
they are adorable.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
~note: i'm currently dating someone but am always open to queer friends/energy in my life~

you are Leisha Hailey circa 1997.

but also if you want to hang out in real life and grab a coffee or something instead of just sending messages on okc!

in general, feel free message me!
i like talking to people.

i especially like talking about gender. or queerness. or cuba. or cuban film. or queer films. or anything at all, actually.