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26 Berkeley, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23–28
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:32am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
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It's important for me that the people in my life are exceptionally mindful of race, gender, class, ableism, power dynamics in relationships, and that they are willing and able to consider these in a way that is multi-dimensional, dynamic, and attentive to nuance.

I'm cis, male, nonmonogamous, and a full time student majoring in physics, with designs on medical school. I take care of plants, mostly miscellaneous medicinal herbs and native plants as well as a few root vegetables that were mostly rescued from the cutting board in my kitchen. The world and its processes and the relationships between physical phenomena, life forms, and the intelligence of plants and animals all bring me a great deal of excitement. So, yeah, I spend a lot of time reading, learning about things, and relating what I learn to the people in my life.

I like talking about intersectionality, and the politics and ethnographies of fields, disciplines, institutions, and other social phenomena that are usually depoliciticized -- particularly science, mathematics, technology, medicine, and academia, but also personal relationships and day-to-day social interactions. I can get a bit abstract and heady at times, but politics isn't real to me unless it's personal, so I try to hold myself accountable to stay rooted in the real world first and foremost.

That said, accountability is super important to me, especially self-accountability, and it's important for me that the people in my life are down for accountability and understand that it doesn't need to be this sort of punitive, punishing process, but one which protects people and encourages healthy relationships (but that that definitely doesn't mean it's comfortable).

ok and im totally aware this shit is making me come off really uptight and kinda square, which is pretty true but also not. but it mostly is. basically: I'm a nerd who is passionate (and slightly obsessive) about things and I'm looking for people who have similar interests or similar levels of passion for whatever it is they do, and above all else, people who are critical and self-aware, and mindful of privilege and oppression, who wont ruin my fucking day with some bullshit comment or ironic racism/(trans)misogyny. thx
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm taking classes at community college full time, making food for my housemates/friends, taking care of plants, keeping my house from falling apart, hanging out with/talking to my neighbors and random folks on the street, studying/reading about math, science, animals, plants, herbs, nutrition.
I’m really good at
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chess, making large quantities of food, baking (not bread tho :( ), math.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I need a haircut.
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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Oppressions, whether the sequence of coefficients that emerges from applying integration by parts infinitely many times to a function that contains both exponentials and trigonometric functions (for example) contains any relevant patterns, the extent to which Western culture influences the science it produces and vice versa, non-normative sexualities, etymologies, dream interpretation. whether the tiny spider I find and remove from my room every day is the same spider that just keeps coming back or whether it just had a shitload of friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not actually a scumbag New Ageist, even though this profile is possibly making me seem like one.
You should message me if
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I'm looking primarily for friends and activity partners.

You are self-critical, reflective, and any of the above resonates with you.

You're down to cook, read, walk/BART around.