42 Las Vegas, NV
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My self-summary
***I am open to exploring "alternative/non-vanilla" lifestyles with a TRUSTED and COMMITTED partner. Hopefully someone understands this

I'm divorced after a brief marriage (3yrs) in Phoenix, with no kids. I think that going through something like that helps you realize what it is you like/want in a partner...and won't "play games". I believe in honesty, chivalry, communication, TRUST....and chemistry/compatibility in every aspect of your life. If you can't be honest with the person you're with (or yourself for that matter)...what's the point?

I have a good job that I like/am happy with (transferred here with my company). Love my dogs to death, don't really know anyone here. The move happened pretty quick, so I said "what the hell". I'm not very close with my family at all, and I'm good with that...so hopefully you are too. I do have good morals, values and great friends back home.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm pretty much a "regular" person. I work mon-fri, about 40-45hrs. I enjoy taking care of my dogs, happy hours, hanging out with friends, going to movies, etc.

I get people like to travel, hike, bike, go to school while working full time and all that...but am I the only one that has responsibilities at home where during the week it's pretty much work, gym, home, dinner? How/when do people have the time to be touring the world with regular full time jobs and what am I doing wrong?
I’m really good at
Making people laugh or smile. Being myself and not judging people. Liking and accepting people for who they are.

Character is how you treat people...when they have nothing to give you.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies; I do like those movies that I've seen over and over and over again....they're still entertaining (but I'm not annoying to sit there and quote the lines, I just like the 2 hours of entertainment). Otherwise, I like all types...then for porn, I like...LOL (just seeing if you're reading)

TV; I usually watch sports 'live' on TV. NFL, NHL packages on DirectTV. For shows, thank god for DVR...its trying to catch up thats hard. It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Family Guy, American Dad..Seinfeld, King of Queens reruns...and then Spartacus, Game of Thrones

Music; Open to all, depending on the mood. I don't listen to rap with my windows down for everyone on the road to hear. 80's-90's rock, Pearl Jam, Smashing Pumpkins, Bush....oh, and George Clinton and the P-Funk - yes, for real, funk you very much.

Food; Meat and potatoes, seafood, italian. Yes, I can cook, but it's lame (and too many dishes) for just myself. I usually make a big meal on sunday for leftovers all week.
The six things I could never do without
My dogs
A movie theater
My job (helps)
.......still deciding on 6
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I'm going to do with all the money, when I win the lottery

Why do people post pictures of their kids? I realize that if they list they have them...they have kids/aren't lying. I just don't know if I'd want to put them on a public site.

If you say you're tired of meeting "vegas douchebags"...maybe YOU need to change the type of guy you're looking for?
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends what kind of week I had
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm open-minded and willing to try anything at least once. I don't mind trying new things/stepping out of my comfort zone. I know what fetlife is and am GGG. (Hopefully you are too...look it up!!)

I believe when you do things that make you nervous, you're kind of "growing" as a person.

My questions answered a lot of my private things. Look through them and ask me anything
You should message me if
Religion - I was raised Catholic...but not practicing anymore by choice. I believe in Karma. I believe in treating others good and not judging. That should be plenty to get me into heaven if there is one.
Politics - I don't subscribe to any party. I believe in common sense. I believe in fiscal responsibility and have liberal views. I believe in the constitution, the right to bear arms...but I don't own a gun. I believe women should have the right to choose what to do with their body (which would be a tough choice as it is)...and I wouldn't want to be told what to do with mine.
Race - I could care less what color a person is...It has nothing to do with who a person is....that's just ridiculous.
Sexuality - I am open to all people - gay, straight, bi, lesbian, transgender, drag queens, Dom/sub...whatever. Consenting adults..treat others well is important to me. I'm happy and comfortably in my sexuality enough to be friends with all people..can hang with a gay crowd/gay bar...and be just fine. I like to think at 40 that I'm mostly an adult and can handle many situations and know who I am...if you're closed minded, we won't be a match.

I'm looking for someone that's open-minded in all aspects of life. If you're prudish, judgemental...we probably won't "mesh". I live a "regular" life...work, home, social life. I sometimes wonder after reading these profiles how do people have the time to have a full time job, go to school, hike, gym, bike ride...while traveling several times a year to Europe, Mexico...what am I doing wrong?? I mean, it's great I guess if you can/more power to you...but I guess I'm more of a "regular" every day person. I like a woman that can lounge around in sweats/shorts...but please enjoy your "feminine" side as well. Its attractive when a girl likes to be a "girl"...wear heels out/look nice.

I've met some cool people from online, and I'm PERFECTLY OK if we meet, and there's no "spark". It happens...its life. It's not rejection, but I want to meet that person that I can't wait to see again the second time. I don't expect marriage, meet the family, move in together and all that....we just need that attraction. I know sometimes its awkward to say it's not there for me/you.....but hey, we are all adults, arent we????