Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
***I am open to exploring "alternative/non-vanilla" lifestyles with
a TRUSTED and COMMITTED partner. Hopefully someone understands
I'm divorced after a brief marriage (3yrs) in Phoenix, with no
kids. I think that going through something like that helps you
realize what it is you like/want in a partner...and won't "play
games". I believe in honesty, chivalry, communication, TRUST....and
chemistry/compatibility in every aspect of your life. If you can't
be honest with the person you're with (or yourself for that
matter)...what's the point?
I have a good job that I like/am happy with (transferred here with
my company). Love my dogs to death, don't really know anyone here.
The move happened pretty quick, so I said "what the hell". I'm not
very close with my family at all, and I'm good with that...so
hopefully you are too. I do have good morals, values and great
friends back home.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm pretty much a "regular" person. I work mon-fri, about 40-45hrs.
I enjoy taking care of my dogs, happy hours, hanging out with
friends, going to movies, etc.
I get people like to travel, hike, bike, go to school while working
full time and all that...but am I the only one that has
responsibilities at home where during the week it's pretty much
work, gym, home, dinner? How/when do people have the time to be
touring the world with regular full time jobs and what am I doing
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh or smile. Being myself and not judging people.
Liking and accepting people for who they are.
Character is how you treat people...when they have nothing to give
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies; I do like those movies that I've seen over and over and
over again....they're still entertaining (but I'm not annoying to
sit there and quote the lines, I just like the 2 hours of
entertainment). Otherwise, I like all types...then for porn, I
like...LOL (just seeing if you're reading)
TV; I usually watch sports 'live' on TV. NFL, NHL packages on
DirectTV. For shows, thank god for DVR...its trying to catch up
thats hard. It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Family Guy, American
Dad..Seinfeld, King of Queens reruns...and then Spartacus, Game of
Music; Open to all, depending on the mood. I don't listen to rap
with my windows down for everyone on the road to hear. 80's-90's
rock, Pearl Jam, Smashing Pumpkins, Bush....oh, and George Clinton
and the P-Funk - yes, for real, funk you very much.
Food; Meat and potatoes, seafood, italian. Yes, I can cook, but
it's lame (and too many dishes) for just myself. I usually make a
big meal on sunday for leftovers all week.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A movie theater
My job (helps)
.......still deciding on 6
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I'm going to do with all the money, when I win the
Why do people post pictures of their kids? I realize that if they
list they have them...they have kids/aren't lying. I just don't
know if I'd want to put them on a public site.
If you say you're tired of meeting "vegas douchebags"...maybe YOU
need to change the type of guy you're looking for?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends what kind of week I had
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm open-minded and willing to try anything at least once. I don't
mind trying new things/stepping out of my comfort zone. I know what
fetlife is and am GGG. (Hopefully you are too...look it up!!)
I believe when you do things that make you nervous, you're kind of
"growing" as a person.
My questions answered a lot of my private things. Look through them
and ask me anything
You should message me if
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Religion - I was raised Catholic...but not practicing anymore by
choice. I believe in Karma. I believe in treating others good and
not judging. That should be plenty to get me into heaven if there
Politics - I don't subscribe to any party. I believe in common
sense. I believe in fiscal responsibility and have liberal views. I
believe in the constitution, the right to bear arms...but I don't
own a gun. I believe women should have the right to choose what to
do with their body (which would be a tough choice as it is)...and I
wouldn't want to be told what to do with mine.
Race - I could care less what color a person is...It has nothing to
do with who a person is....that's just ridiculous.
Sexuality - I am open to all people - gay, straight, bi, lesbian,
transgender, drag queens, Dom/sub...whatever. Consenting
adults..treat others well is important to me. I'm happy and
comfortably in my sexuality enough to be friends with all
people..can hang with a gay crowd/gay bar...and be just fine. I
like to think at 40 that I'm mostly an adult and can handle many
situations and know who I am...if you're closed minded, we won't be
I'm looking for someone that's open-minded in all aspects of life.
If you're prudish, judgemental...we probably won't "mesh". I live a
"regular" life...work, home, social life. I sometimes wonder after
reading these profiles how do people have the time to have a full
time job, go to school, hike, gym, bike ride...while traveling
several times a year to Europe, Mexico...what am I doing wrong?? I
mean, it's great I guess if you can/more power to you...but I guess
I'm more of a "regular" every day person. I like a woman that can
lounge around in sweats/shorts...but please enjoy your "feminine"
side as well. Its attractive when a girl likes to be a
"girl"...wear heels out/look nice.
I've met some cool people from online, and I'm PERFECTLY OK if we
meet, and there's no "spark". It happens...its life. It's not
rejection, but I want to meet that person that I can't wait to see
again the second time. I don't expect marriage, meet the family,
move in together and all that....we just need that attraction. I
know sometimes its awkward to say it's not there for me/you.....but
hey, we are all adults, arent we????
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