Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Religion - I was raised Catholic...but not practicing anymore by
choice. I believe in Karma. I believe in treating others good and
not judging. That should be plenty to get me into heaven if there
Politics - I don't subscribe to any party. I believe in common
sense. I believe in fiscal responsibility and have liberal views. I
believe in the constitution, the right to bear arms...but I don't
own a gun. I believe women should have the right to choose what to
do with their body (which would be a tough choice as it is)...and I
wouldn't want to be told what to do with mine.
Race - I could care less what color a person is...It has nothing to
do with who a person is....that's just ridiculous.
Sexuality - I am open to all people - gay, straight, bi, lesbian,
transgender, drag queens, Dom/sub...whatever. Consenting
adults..treat others well is important to me. I'm happy and
comfortably in my sexuality enough to be friends with all
people..can hang with a gay crowd/gay bar...and be just fine. I
like to think at 40 that I'm mostly an adult and can handle many
situations and know who I am...if you're closed minded, we won't be
I'm looking for someone that's open-minded in all aspects of life.
If you're prudish, judgemental...we probably won't "mesh". I live a
"regular" life...work, home, social life. I sometimes wonder after
reading these profiles how do people have the time to have a full
time job, go to school, hike, gym, bike ride...while traveling
several times a year to Europe, Mexico...what am I doing wrong?? I
mean, it's great I guess if you can/more power to you...but I guess
I'm more of a "regular" every day person. I like a woman that can
lounge around in sweats/shorts...but please enjoy your "feminine"
side as well. Its attractive when a girl likes to be a
"girl"...wear heels out/look nice.
I've met some cool people from online, and I'm PERFECTLY OK if we
meet, and there's no "spark". It happens...its life. It's not
rejection, but I want to meet that person that I can't wait to see
again the second time. I don't expect marriage, meet the family,
move in together and all that....we just need that attraction. I
know sometimes its awkward to say it's not there for me/you.....but
hey, we are all adults, arent we????