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21 F Northampton, MA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:02am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a slightly-scattered recent college grad trying to stay afloat of my student loans. I'm living and being with my partner in Northampton for the summer. If you want to find me, I'll be outside.

I don't check this thing very often, since I have little internet in my life, but I'm looking for new and exciting friends, either of the sexual or non-sexual kind (but let's be real, one of those options is way more fun).
What I’m doing with my life
I just dumped my fun public defense investigator job, and I'm living in the valley till the end of the August. I'm working minimum wage jobs and drinking cocktails because I fucking love summer.

You can find me on my bike, having adventures, swimming poorly, or playing bocce ball at that playground in Easthampton off the bike path. I love that place.
I’m really good at
Cribbage. Peeling a clementine in one long curly-q. Driving stick. Drinking all the drinks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I live the martini life. Preferably on a porch with a cigarette in nice weather, but I take what I can get.

I can cook a damn good burger--be forewarned. They go really well with action movies on a friday night.

If you spoil the last Song of Ice and Fire book for me, I will wreck you. I'm also in the middle of reading Strunk and White's 4th edition, so there's that for contrast. Mostly I read short stories, because they are usually more fun and interesting than whole novels.
The six things I could never do without
Nice weather, a hand-rolled cigarette, a delicious meal, booze, good conversation, and skin-to-skin contact.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex. Let's be real. Also, prosecutorial discretion. Also also, cheeses.
On a typical Friday night I am
Burgers and beer is my favorite Friday night, but I'm a flexible person. Lately my life has been very scattered, so these days I'm never sure what state I'll be in on a Friday night, let alone what I'm doing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to have a private investigator license. LITERALLY private, guys.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You think you could beat me at cribbage. Also, if you're the type of person who's cool with cribbage at a bar.

You want to sit out on a porch with a martini and a cigarette.

You feel passionately about something--a social justice issue, a craft, a musical instrument--and you'd be interested in teaching or showing others. Show me what you're into!

You're okay with non-monogamous relationships. This one is key.

You want to!