IT'S NOT THE FIRST DATE THAT'S INTERESTING...IT'S THE SECOND!!!
You'll catch my eye with your ,good looks; you'll catch my attention with your WITTY repartee and playful banter; you'll reel me in with a really great KISS; and you'll seal the deal with a truly good HEART...! I want it all and I know you are out there~let's connect...
"ONE of the most difficult tasks in life is removing someone from your heart. – But, no relationship is a waste of time. The wrong ones teach you the lessons that prepare you for the right ones" SEEKING THE RIGHT CONNECTION TO ENJOY SOME GREAT ADVENTURES ON THIS JOURNEY CALLED LIFE.
After some interesting relationships,I realize that I prefer the man who is confident in who he is today. Not looking for someone who is trying to recapture missed college adventures,but looking to create new and exciting ones with a like partner. And,who wears those attractive laugh lines around his eyes and on his face proudly---there is truly nothing sexier than a sense of humor and intelligence!
Not interested in dating just to date,instead would like one really great guy who tall; unflinchingly honest; willing to compromise ; educated; values great conversation/communication; laughter; fun; and has a really GREAT HEART.... who is not afraid to explore a connection,and risk LOVING again. Looking for more of a long term partnership this time around....want that great connection on all levels....
If you 'get' this,then you 'get' me~
“If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.”
― Bob Marley
DO YOU STILL BELIEVE IN LOVE~
Someone recently asked me this after the end of my last relationship and the answer is emphatically "YES." If you view love as overrated please pass me by. It requires risking the "oh shits" in life and being completely vulnerable and real. The REWARD is GREAT PASSION & REAL INTIMACY. Not interested in settling for less, and am willing to invest the time. I am completely open while searching for that great connection.
Joie de vivre~ essential....
I Answered All The Questions With Unflinching Honesty,But Look Beyond Just The Sex Questions~
"It's easy to take off your clothes and have sex. People do it all the time. But opening up yourself to someone, letting them into your spirit, thoughts, fears, dreams... now that's being naked." Unknown
This sums up my "boxes"~ Looking for "The One" who navigates seamlessly between fun and serious; intimacy and sexuality(there is a difference); romance and real life; smart and "smart alec"... is this you?
Dating is teaching me a lot about myself,but I am a work in progress and find myself in somewhat unfamiliar territory online,so if you don't believe and practice THE GOLDEN RULE, please pass me by. I am intelligent, fun loving, quick witted,affectionate, self confident ... and more than comfortable in my own skin!
It is a new day,not exactly where I planned to be all those years ago,but enjoying the path before me AND this time enjoying the future one day at a time. Still believe in the fairy tale,but not seeking the prince---looking for the "fun,intelligent frog"(so to to speak) whose warts (or life experience ) will mesh with mine....We are really not going to change much at this stage of life. Not seeking to be rescued,merely share some great new experiences with a like minded man....Beyond that---who knows!
There are a lot of places I like to travel to and explore---love small coastal towns( still have family in the Tampa area); antiquing (my family has a store in Tampa);art fairs and galleries;trying local wineries(source of my user name after enjoying those outings,but I am only a light drinker); and hiking in the beautiful N GA mountains (there is so much beauty in our own "backyard",so grab your hiking boots and let's go). Or, let's catch a college basketball game(my son plays and is 6'11")-it is a passion of mine....
UPDATE 7-30-13~ San Francisco WAS my dream trip,but just returned and loved it---what beauty from the coastal hwys views to the beautiful mountains across the road.... Looking for new ideas!! More fun to sharing these and many more adventures in the company of an intelligent man with a great sense of humor...spontaneous nature a plus!
Not much of an email girl,still prefer real voice...the voice tells a lot!!So let's talk...WHY Wait,the risks are minimal the rewards unlimited!!
Please be passionate and joyful about this journey called life,even on tough days,I am!