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46 / F / Straight / Single

Alexandria, Virginia

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Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am an eternal optimist and incurable romantic who tries really hard to live in the moment and get joy out of each second.

I have a job that I thoroughly enjoy - most of the time. It involves some travel, which can be both exciting and exhausting but gives me an opportunity to visit many places across the country. I just have to figure out how to arrange a business trip to Greece! Like most people in the D.C. Metro area, I am trying to find a greater balance between work and life. I'm getting much better.

Most mornings you'll find me at the gym trying to get into better shape. Being healthy of mind and body is a priority for me, which includes daily exercise, among other things. But I am far from physical perfection. I am a full-figured woman who loves her body. If this is something that appeals to you keep reading :-)

Enough about that. When I'm not at the office, gym or on the road, I enjoy cooking (for others), watching great films, taking in local attractions and spending time with friends. I've recently become addicted to deep-tissue massages (due to the aforementioned workouts) and am a big fan of wine, particularly champagne. Good tequila is another favorite but makes me do bad things :-)

With regard to my perfect match, I can't say I believe such a person exists. At one time or another most of us have created a mental list of the qualities we thought we wanted in a partner. These lists often are not based in reality and can have us spending precious time searching for the illusive. Besides, there are things that cannot be accounted for on lists. Those intangible qualities some of us refer to as chemistry can be as important to a relationship as anything you can jot down on paper.

But for those of you who insist on lists I will say that I am generally attracted to men who are confident (not cocky), unpretentious, expressive, have a generous spirit, thirst for knowledge, compassionate heart, wicked sense of humor and very passionate. In terms of physical traits, I can’t say I lean in any one direction. Any man I spend time with MUST be honest and is comfortable around diverse groups of people - that's non-negotiable. One last thing: If you are married or in a committed relationship do NOT contact me. Your plate is already full. There. You have your list :-)

If this process results in a long-term relationship, that would be great. If not, I hope at least to gain a new friend and enjoy the ride along the way.

Are you ready?
I’m really good at
There are many things that fall into that category but I prefer that you discover them on your own.
The first things people usually notice about me
That depends on where you're eyes are focused :-) All kidding aside, I've been told I have a great smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Like most things in my life, I have diverse interests. Right now, my favorite TV shows are Scandal, White Collar and The New Normal. Musical tastes are all over the board: pop, jazz, Brazilian, rock - it just has to move me. the same goes for books.
The six things I could never do without
Friends
Music
Books
Passion
Wine
Massages... not in any particular order of preference :-)
On a typical Friday night I am
There's nothing really typical about my Friday nights. I can spend the evening with friends, enjoy dinner and a movie or just veg out after a very long week of work. It just depends on how I'm feeling at the time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If it's that means I'm not willing to share that information with strangers. You'll have to get to know me better.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You are truly single, open-minded and looking for more than just a one-night stand. It would also be nice if you've actually taken the time to read my profile :-)