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38 • San Antonio, TX • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–58
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Apr 5
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
- Dropped out of university
- Sales / Marketing
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently)
Currently trying to embrace Buddhist teachings such as living in the now and accepting others and being more warm and open. Cutting back on my caffeine addiction helps a ton, but it's so much fun! Damnit!
Realizing that I need to have a life/ work balance; and if I meet some wacky intelligent people in the process, hey, everybody wins!
I surf for people to chat with, not to snog. So, if you get a message from me that I think you are cool and we should chat, I may just think you might be cool and I don't necessarily want to hump your leg.
Driving Fast Cars
Figuring people out
Comedic timing, you'll never see the joke coming
Talking wine(even better at drinking it)
Books-Anything by Donna Tartt, esp The Goldfinch
Thunderhead, Which Anne Rice Recommended, It Was Great. Also Reading Devil In The White City
Anything By David Lynch, Alfred Hitchcock, Or Wes Anderson
Better Off Dead
Million Dollar Hotel(Wim Wenders is pretty rockin, too!)
Fave book this far was one called Night Film-check it out
I love Asian food, Indian, hmm.
I prefer independent restaurants to chains. I worked in fine dining for a long time, and I just don't respect most of the Olive Garden/ Chili's kind of food. There are way too many quality restaurants to need chain restaurant food.
The Opportunity To Support Myself Financially
Being Around Other Gay People
Learning more about spirituality
Why people are such terrible drivers here
Where I Want To Be In Next Cpl Yrs
How To Better myself At Work
My Jeep(I know, so stereotypical lesbian)
Moving back to Portland, someday
I'm looking for friends. I am not a therapist. If we just go for a casual drink and you talk for a straight hour about your ex, we won't hit it off. Sorry, I am supportive, but everyone has their limits.
You are not looking for femme girls to date(I am not that femme anyways!)
You have your life somewhat sorted out; we are all works in progress, but the less chaos, the better. Chaos in bed, however, is acceptable.
You are not a dude
You are not a couple looking for another vag to join the party
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