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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:19pm
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Judaism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), LISP (Somewhat), C++ (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have a pro-me bias. You're going to have to ask someone else about this.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Have my own wine importing company that is 2+ years old. Working a lot and love my work as it is a dream realized and it is very successful. On the side I sell diamond encrusted wine bottles to select rappers and entrepreneurs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Moderation and self-discipline. Making uncomfortable silences more uncomfortable. I can make anyone laugh... especially at me. Even animals. Especially animals. I can mis-pell definetly at least 25 different ways. I'm really good at that. Defineitely really good at that.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my gold fronts and whatever pair of dope ass kicks I am wearing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Small, but very pretentious list of books.

The Brothers Karamazov, Jude The Obscure, Sons & Lovers, Don Quixote, The Idiot, Lost Illusions, Dead Souls, Me Talk Pretty Every Day, The Interpretation of Dreams

Pretentious Television

Mad Men, Breaking Bad, The Wire, LOST, Louie, Curb, Rescue Me, 24, Seinfeld, (24 is a ridiculous guilty pleasure, I always know Jack will save the day but always forget the details, which means it will be re-watchable forever. Also love my hour of bleakness every week, The Leftovers.

Extremely pretentious list of films I love: (with also a dash of low brow horror)

Mouchette, Pierrot Le Fou, Contempt, Stolen Kisses, Gummo, Fitzcarralldo, Videodrome, Following, Vertigo, Pickpocket, My Night at Maud's, Let The Right One In, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Cure, Cache, Funny Games, Stalker, Solaris, The Shining, Jules et Jim, Mishima: A Life in Four Chapters, La Collectionneuse, Le Bonheur, Les Biches, The Passion of Joan the Arc, Le Feu Follet, The Breakfast Club, Breathless, Sansho the Bailiff, Battle Royale, Ichi the Killer, Orpheus, Pumping Iron, Fast Cheap & Out of Control, Pumping Iron, Woman In the Dunes, Ikuru, Au Revoir Les Enfants, Tokyo Sonata, Le Samourai, Le Trou, An Autumn Afternoon, Cleo from 5 to 8, Orpheus, Harakiri, Raise The Red Lantern, Ordet, Hostel, Gertrude, Shivers, A Year of 13 Moons, The Wrestler

Hip-Hop from 88-96 (The Golden Age), Del, Souls, Big L, Biggie, Tupac, Tribe, Black Sheep, De La, Leaders, UMC's, Pete Rock & CL Smooth, Casual, Pep Love, Chubb Rock, Brand Nubian, Juggaknots, Joey Bada$$, etc.



Ssam Bar, Lan Sheng, Mission Chinese, Soto, Cookshop, Shuko, Estella, Della 'Anima, Ma Peche, Danji, Charlie Bird, Cornerstone Grill (best ghetto dirty-ass fried chicken in NYC) Roberta's, Castro on Myrtle Avenue (reference point east coast Mexican). Union Square Farmer's Market.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the gym
oolong/green tea
granny smith apples
German Riesling
glasses (eye kind and wine kind; is that two things?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
That the most important thing in life is our relationships to other people. Other things are nice, but when you strip it all away, your people matter the most.

The profound culture shock I have coming back to the USA after traveling in Europe for work and why it gets worse as I get older.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating some sort of artery-clogging food and washing it down with some high acid fruitless white wine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I belch double rainbows and the pigeons fly over me, right side up/belly down, and not belly up towards the sky. That is a very very good thing.
You should message me if
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You think clubbing baby seals with elephant tusks is a fun first date.

Also I am 40, in November, but since I turned the big 40, life has changed on OK Cupid (not for the better) so have 39 in there for search purposes.

Oh, and if you don't like cats, don't bother. Had cats for 25 years. Have two rescue brothers now. They are part of the package. I know, 40, single, two cats screams date me, but the cat stereotype is over with thanks to the Internet, and if it isn't for you, keep passing me by.