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54 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:49am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid
Has dogs
English (Poorly), Maori (Fluently), Gujarati (Fluently), Ancient Greek (Fluently), Frisian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hello out there! ---I'm a masculine outdoors/indoors type looking for someone somewhat similar (or not)... sort-of a cowboy ... searching for a riding partner (that's a metaphor- I don't have a horse- figured I'd better update that after all the "horse'' inquiries---some of them really funny). I am a peaceful guy--mellow even, thrilled with where I live (Seattle).
What I’m doing with my life
Wow. That's heavy. You sound like my Dad.
(seriously though...this is an intense question..I'll have to get back to you on it)---
So --- here's me getting back to this July, 2014. Generally I hate to talk about myself but in this case I'll give you a few tidbits (dumb word)--
Aside from work, which is in a creative field,
I'm a very big dog guy, I like to kayak, bike, hike and camp. But in Seattle I like a lot of the urban stuff too-- love coffee shops, bookstores, films, college campuses, the many beautiful parks and eclectic neighborhoods and holes-in the walls and food trucks and on and on--- I hang out with friends at (very small) dinner parties and movie nights and spend a fair amount of time with my family.
Well---that's all for now---maybe Ill update again soon.
I’m really good at
Writing, listening, touching and loving.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This would be a long and tedious list for all of us to endure but I will say I recently saw Drive and thought it was a great film. And I never miss the Shouts and Murmurs column in the New Yorker. (And I've decided to follow the X factor lately.)
(and pretty much anything DeCaprio is in is an extremely high quality film)
My update: I read a lot of Richard Ford and the New Yorker, and non fiction. I've stopped reading politics because I was getting fed up. Musically I've recently shifted from indie and pop music to a lot more classical (and yes, country---the songs are very well crafted).
Okay that's all for now!
The six things I could never do without
Love rest dogs hope food air
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how fleeting it all is. Even this moment is now gone. While I do usually look for the positive and humor in life, I'm not a Pollyanna. Much of what goes on around me and around the world can be sad. And it does affect me, I'm human. I think many people with soul mates or partners have an easier time with the paradox of the human condition, if only because they have someone to share/handle it all with. (most of my adult life I've been in a long-term relationship).
On a typical Friday night I am
Friday night is Taco night. Yum!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Depends on who I am admitting it to .. This is done on a sliding scale. I start with Mom (who gets to know my name only) at a 1 and work up.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're a nice normal regular guy who'd sincerely like to have a meet-up if we seem to connect ( instead of months or years of emails lol ). Plus, cook for me please! I'll give you the menu.