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34 M Kirkland, WA

My Details

Last Online
Mar 30
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English, C++

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My self-summary
I'm *married* to dolly0519 whom I met through okcupid! Furthermore, she messaged me first. Keep that in mind if you're a woman searching for love!

I'm an atheist geek and proud of it. I play RPGs, read Science Fiction, and never miss PAX (Penny Arcade Expo) [which is also one place at which I volunteer].

If you approve, you'll also find that I'm intensely loyal, a good listener, honest, kind, astute, and easygoing.

I have a passion for trying new things with whomever I happen to be hanging out with, as long as they do the suggesting. Doing more traveling and exploring are also both on my ToDo list - just tell me where and when. "I'm game." I recently drove a 3500 mile road trip around various Western states sightseeing (primarily the landscape, avoiding major cities), and I'd love to do it again along a different route with company.

I think PostSecret is beautiful.

I love music, movies, reading, and eating out. I really want to do more karaoke. I enjoy precision sports such as disk golf and bocce and have been known to go on walks or hikes with the right company. I appreciate activities that challenge the mind, such as logic puzzles and sudoku, and I equally welcome the chance to go out for entertainment like bowling, pool, or mini-golf.

I don't like coffee but like the atmosphere of coffee shops - you'll find me drinking hot chocolate.

I hate large parties and love small groups. Give me a political or philisophical discussion with "coffee" (see above) and friends over large mingling gatherings with alcohol and strangers any day.

I'm an INTJ and Enneagram Type 5 with dual wings 4/6. That one sentence has the potential to tell you an enormous amount about my personality.

I'm a gamer. It's a passion, but not an all-consuming one. I never play MMOs, but other than that my gaming tastes are very broad, including board games, card games, video games, computer games, word games, and the already mentioned role-playing games. I especialy like Rock Band and Lips (combining gaming with music) and DDR (music plus a cardeo workout).

I enjoy online comic strips such as XKCD, S*P, QC, OOTS, Rob and Eliot, ThePain, Schlock, Freefall, and A Softer World.

I tend to avoid paying attention to the news, unless you count Daily Show and Colbert Report when I remember to stream them.

I gave up faith, defined as belief without evidence, a long time ago. I am an atheist, and yes, I am repeating that fact at the end of my summary for emphasis. I'm also a Pastafarian (all hail the Flying Spaghetti Monster)! If that's a problem for you, now's the time to stop reading.
What I’m doing with my life
I write software, I love it, and I'm extremely good at it. My income is well-deserved. However, even if it didn't pay, I'd do it for free and work a different job. Some of the products my code is inside include: XBOX360 and XBOXOne, PlayStation 3 and 4, Windows 7+, iOS, Android, and Windows Phone.

I suppose that's actually just my career. Outside work, I'm primarily just trying to get the most enjoyment out of life possible.
I’m really good at
I've been told I'm a good singer. I'm great at most games. I'm a speed-reader and speed-typer. In the right programming languages, I can probably code rings around you and anyone you've ever met, but I'm a also great teacher and love it enough to consider it a potential alternative future career.

Oh, and I've been told I'm great in bed.
The first things people usually notice about me
People immediately notice that I'm quite thin. If they first see me while I'm sitting down, then they're often surprised at my height when I stand up. They usually ask me to let them read my current T-shirt, whichever one that is - then they laugh at said T-shirt (which is really the whole point).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Time Enough for Love, The Moon is a Harsh Mistress, and anything else by Robert A Heinlein (or simplyRobert Heinlein). Followed by way too many to list - I read a lot. Some other authors that I have several books by include Neil Gaiman, Larry Niven, Alan Dean Foster, Isaac Asimov, Harry Turtledove, Stephen King, Raymond E Feist, and Terry Pratchett.

Movies: The Princess Bride (listed first intentionally!), followed by quite a few, but here's a sample: The Butterfly Effect, Shrek, The Gamers, Finding Nemo, Monty Python (all), Aladdin, Dogma, Dr. Horrible, P.S. I Love You, Stranger than Fiction, and V for Vendetta.

Music: I gravitate towards rock, pop, alternative, and Techno/Euro-Tr/Dance. I don't like most country or rap. Based on numbers of Pandora thumbs-ups, I seem to like these bands: Evanescence, Pink, Owl City, Three Days Grace, Cascada, The Veronicas, Coldplay, Breaking Benjamin, Groove Coverage, Savage Garden, Roxette, 3 Doors Down, Daughtry, Linkin Park, Nickelback, Skillet, Staind, ATB, Armin Van Buuren, Basshunter, Oceanlab, and t.A.T.u.

TV: Firefly, obviously. Then, in no particular order, shows I watched/watch: anything else from Joss Whedon (Buffy, Angel, Dollhouse), Star Trek (esp TNG and DS9), Numb3rs, Chuck, Bones, Dexter, Nip Tuck, Big Bang Theory. It's easy to get me interested in a new show if the concept, the writing, or the combination are good, but I don't keep up with new TV, preferring to let recommendations from friends drive my usage.

Food: Chocolate, Steak, Pizza, American, Italian, Thai, Mexican, Fajitas, Sandwiches, BBQ, and Chinese. However, I don't think this matters very much.
The six things I could never do without
...exactly 6? Well, in no particular order:
Physical Necessities (including my glasses).
Philosophical Necessities (personal autonomy, privacy, etc).
Personal Electronics and electronically-derived entertainment (TV, Movies, DVDs, Consoles, Computers, Internet, and _especially_ Music).
Crap, that's 7. I refuse to remove one.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
(In no particular order)
Love, Existentialism, Science, and Life.
My job.
Sleep (when deprived thereof).
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical? Well, if I think about the last few months, here are some of the things I've done on a Friday evening: Go bowling; go out to a movie; read a novel; watch TV on DVD or Netflix; eat at a restaurant and walk in a park; rollerblading; visit an art festival; have sex.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I cry when consuming certain media. For example, P.S. I Love You.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if think you can take me in Settlers of Catan.
...we have some interests in common.'re interested in seducing me or being seduced by me.
...I message you, even if it's to tell me you're not interested. Show some courtesy.