I don't like coffee but like the atmosphere of coffee shops - you'll find me drinking hot chocolate. I prefer listening to talking until I get going on one of my many passions.
I'm in a polyamorous marriage to a woman whom I met through okcupid. Now that our relationship is happy and secure, I'm looking for another female (cis or otherwise) partner (who's into my kinks) for me while my wife's looking for another male partner (who's into her kinks) for her. (Clear as mud? Good. Not so much? Ask away. :)
I have a passion for trying new things with whomever I happen to be hanging out with, as long as they do the suggesting. Doing more exploring is on my ToDo list - just tell me where and when. "I'm game." While we're at it, "I'm a gamer". Board, Tabletop, PC, Console, etc. My biggest creative outlets are being a GM and writing software, and if you think either one doesn't require plenty of creativity, we should chat so I can disillusion you of that notion.
I hate large parties and love small groups / 1:1. Give me a political or philosophical or scientifical (which I'm now insisting is a word to maintain the rhyme) discussion over "coffee" (see above) and friends over too much alcohol and strangers any day. (Not that I don't enjoy the occasional drink.)
I tend to avoid paying attention to the news because it's too depressing. That's assuming you don't count Daily Show and Colbert Report when I remember to stream them, of course, but even that is rare - too many other things to do.
I volunteer at PAX. I play frisbee golf and bocce. I hate bigotry. I love Tim Minchin.