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34 M Kirkland, WA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 28
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
English, C++

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My self-summary
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I'm in a polyamorous marriage to a woman whom I met through okcupid. Now, that our relationship is happy and secure, I'm looking for another hereto partner for me while she's looking for another hereto partner for her. (Clear as mud? Good. Not so much? Ask away. :)

I'm an atheist geek and proud of it. I play RPGs, read Science Fiction, and never miss PAX (Penny Arcade Expo) [which is also one place at which I volunteer].

If you approve, you'll also find that I'm intensely loyal, a good listener, honest, kind, astute, and easygoing.

I have a passion for trying new things with whomever I happen to be hanging out with, as long as they do the suggesting. Doing more traveling and exploring are also both on my ToDo list - just tell me where and when. "I'm game."

I think PostSecret is beautiful.

I don't like coffee but like the atmosphere of coffee shops - you'll find me drinking hot chocolate.

I hate large parties and love small groups. Give me a political or philosophical or scientifical (which I'm now inventing as a word to maintain the rhyme) discussion with "coffee" (see above) and friends over too much alcohol and strangers any day. (Not that I don't enjoy the occasional drink.)

I tend to avoid paying attention to the news, unless you count Daily Show and Colbert Report when I remember to stream them.

What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying it!

Career? I write software, I love it, and I'm extremely good at it. Some of the products my code is inside include: XBOX360 and XBOXOne, PlayStation 3 and 4, Windows 7+, iOS, Android, and Windows Phone 7+.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I've been told I'm a good singer. I'm great at most games. I'm a speed-reader and speed-typer. In the right programming languages, I can probably code rings around you and anyone you've ever met, but I'm a also great teacher and love it enough to consider it a potential alternative future career - maybe after I retire from my other career passion.

Eliminating internal inconsistencies and helping others do the same (by revealing them).

Oh, and I've been told I'm great at a few other things that I won't mention here.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People immediately notice that I'm quite thin. If they first see me while I'm sitting down, then they're often surprised at my height when I stand up. They usually ask me to let them read my current T-shirt, whichever one that is - then they laugh at said T-shirt (which is really the whole point).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Sci-Fi, fantasy, and non-fiction.
Movies and music: Anything. Seriously. I've enjoyed almost every movie I've ever seen and like most modern genres of music.
TV: Firefly. Anything Joss or drama.
Food: I am simultaneously a very picky eater and someone who loves trying new food and can always find something to eat at most restaurants.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My major internal organs, major external organs, arms, hands, necessities both physical and philosophical, and modern technology or better.

Note that I didn't list my legs.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. How things work. Why things work the way the do. The problems the world faces and how to fix them. The nature of life, humanity, existence, sentience, and the universe. Art, music, politics/policy, literature, TV, movies, games, work, play, people, places, and things. In computer science terms, i have a blazing fast CPU and think about things even while doing other things. I was thinking about whether being uploaded into a massive computer would be a better way to live while I wrote this. Jury it's still out.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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For some reason, I get a high okcupid match percentage with at least a many bisexuals as straight women. I find this amusing but otherwise irrelevant - be yourself and we're much more likely to get along. :)
You should message me if
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You're interested and you'll meet me in person after some interesting messages.
If I message you, please write back at least once even if it's to say you're not interested; it's only polite.