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winsomelonesome

27 / M / straight / Single

New York, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
—
Kids
—
Pets
—
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am confident, charming, and vexing.

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My Self-Summary

I find the most enjoyable way to do things, and then I head in that direction. I like who I am, and I like what I do. I'm smart, funny, thoughtful, etc. -- all the good traits that women say they want -- but there's obviously much more than that.
dynamic, complex, mysterious -- whatever word you'd want to use -- just think of all the weird contradictions and dichotomies that women truly want for in a man ... and then I'm that.
... and I'm very confident in the person that makes me.

(also, a lot of ladies are stating that they want a man who "has his shit together", so I'll mention that as well. yes.)

What I’m doing with my life

working, writing, walking, and willing myself to live a long and trailblazing life. and talking to folks to see what they might be doing that's better (or at least smarter and more efficient.)

I've had a lot of cool jobs, and met a lot of cool people, but I still haven't found my absolute perfect spot in life yet.

I’m really good at

finding the humor, and solving the problem.

The first things people usually notice about me

my eyes maybe? (either the color, which they like; or the fact that my pupils are always ginormous, which they find intriguing)

... or probably that I talk to them like I know them, even though I don't.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

anything Chicago-related, or fantastical/brilliant.

(I'll point you to my last.fm, facebook, or tumblr if you want, and you can read all about it)

The six things I could never do without

1. music 2. sunlight 3. conversation 4. watery fruits 5. puzzles 6. laughter

I spend a lot of time thinking about

what others must be thinking about. (understanding is key.)
basically -- I just absorb, and observe, and then sometimes comment.

On a typical Friday night I am

working, watching, or wandering. or dancing! (probably not.)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm more generous than most people know.

You should message me if

you're at all good at messaging, and talking to people and such.
I like interesting women with interesting faces.

(you should write to me if you want to. unless I absolutely can't think of anything to say, I'll always write back.)

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