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37 Midlothian, VA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:55pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am a quiet guy. My balance is not great, and neither is my eye sight. What I lack in athleticism I make up in intellect, understanding, and an easy going nature.

I am the head of an IT department and happy with my work, I love looking at cars but I am more of a safety guy and drive a volvo. I am not money driven, but I do enjoy things money can buy. I am a gadget guy who loves shopping at

I don't have hair because I don't really have any on the top. I am who I am and I am ok with having what hair I have as really short or just shaving bald.

I really want to do a lot of things. I want to travel, I want to go on walks in parks and go camping, I want to have quite nights out at a nice restaurant, I want to go to the theatre and opera; more importantly I want to do things with someone. Are you interested in a person with moral character and purity in their heart?
What I’m doing with my life
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I love food, wine, fruits, and cheeses. I enjoy movies and good company. I love conversations on politics, business, philosophy, and life in general.

I started into a local gym and practice martial arts. This is more of a life change for me and I have lost 30 pounds in the last year or so and continue to lose more and work to find an balance that is sustainable.

I'm exploring building a sustainable relationship with my girlfriend and the ins-and-outs of being a single parent. Life likes to throw curve balls and I try to go with the flow of things. There's rarely a straight path to our destinations in life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'd say I'm moderately successful at Being. I think I'd have cracked with all life has thrown at me the last several years if I weren't.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes generally get comments. Though since working out regularly I have received or overheard a few comments about my butt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Dresden Files, Atlas Shrugged, A Song of Ice and Fire Series, Lord of the Rings, The Moon is a Harsh Mistress, Time Enough For Love, Stranger in a Strange Land, Dexter novels, and so many more.

Movies: Star Wars (original trilogy please), Lord of The Rings, The Matrix, Terminator, Alien Saga, Predator series, The Princess Bride, Willow, The Incredibles

Music: Metallica, Cruxshadows, Heather Alexander, Young Dubliners, Mozart, Chopin, Debussey, Count Basie, B. B. King, Ted Nugent, Descendants, Ramones, Green Day. Yes, my playlists are eclectic.

Food: Mexican, Thai, Sushi, Chinese, Mediterranean, Indian. I'll try just about anything once. Definitive no's are liver and brussel sprouts.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the Universe, and EVerything. Where I'm going, how do I get there, who can I take along for the ride? I have a philosophical bent. I'm up for discussing any topic.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Many Friday nights start out with martial arts practice. From there it could be just about anything from a night in with the kids, a night out with my lady, or general shenanigans.
You should message me if
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I want someone who can look past that I am not 6'2" with a 6 pack and bulging arms. I would like to go out with a person who just enjoys life; the good, the bad, the struggles and challenges, but most important wants to spend time with a level headed, caring, and easy going man.

If you can let me pay, allow me to open the door and push your chair in at a dinner table; without being disgusted or then needing to have a 20 minute discussion on chivalry then I think we are on the same page.