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37 Midlothian, VA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am a quiet guy. My balance is not great, and neither is my eye sight. What I lack in athleticism I make up in intellect, understanding, and an easy going nature.

I am the head of an IT department and happy with my work, I love looking at cars but I am more of a safety guy and drive a volvo. I am not money driven, but I do enjoy things money can buy. I am a gadget guy who loves shopping at

I don't have hair because I don't really have any on the top. I am who I am and I am ok with having what hair I have as really short or just shaving bald.

I really want to do a lot of things. I want to travel, I want to go on walks in parks and go camping, I want to have quite nights out at a nice restaurant, I want to go to the theatre and opera; more importantly I want to do things with someone. Are you interested in a person with moral character and purity in their heart?
What I’m doing with my life
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I love food, wine, fruits, and cheeses. I enjoy movies and good company. I love conversations on politics, business, philosophy, and life in general.

I started into a local gym and practice martial arts. This is more of a life change for me and I have lost 30 pounds in the last year or so and continue to lose more and work to find an balance that is sustainable.

Life likes to throw curve balls and I try to go with the flow of things. There's rarely a straight path to our destinations in life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'd say I'm moderately successful at Being. I think I'd have cracked with all life has thrown at me the last several years if I weren't.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes generally get comments. Though since working out regularly I have received or overheard a few comments about my butt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Dresden Files, Atlas Shrugged, A Song of Ice and Fire Series, Lord of the Rings, The Moon is a Harsh Mistress, Time Enough For Love, Stranger in a Strange Land, Dexter novels, and so many more.

Movies: Star Wars (original trilogy please), Lord of The Rings, The Matrix, Terminator, Alien Saga, Predator series, The Princess Bride, Willow, The Incredibles

Music: Metallica, Cruxshadows, Heather Alexander, Young Dubliners, Mozart, Chopin, Debussey, Count Basie, B. B. King, Ted Nugent, Descendants, Ramones, Green Day. Yes, my playlists are eclectic.

Food: Mexican, Thai, Sushi, Chinese, Mediterranean, Indian. I'll try just about anything once. Definitive no's are liver and brussel sprouts.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the Universe, and EVerything. Where I'm going, how do I get there, who can I take along for the ride? I have a philosophical bent. I'm up for discussing any topic.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Many Friday nights start out with martial arts practice. From there it could be just about anything from a night in with the kids, a night out with my lady, or general shenanigans.
You should message me if
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I want someone who can look past that I am not 6'2" with a 6 pack and bulging arms. I would like to go out with a person who just enjoys life; the good, the bad, the struggles and challenges, but most important wants to spend time with a level headed, caring, and easy going man.

If you can let me pay, allow me to open the door and push your chair in at a dinner table; without being disgusted or then needing to have a 20 minute discussion on chivalry then I think we are on the same page.