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40 Durham, NC Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5' 5" (1.65m)
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English, German
My self-summary
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german gothic post punk smart mouth

having lived in durham for over 5 years now, i have come to love both, area and people. i always look to expand my horizon, and you will find me to be a generous, sarcastic, amusing partner in crime for numerous adventures. so... what do you have in mind?
What I’m doing with my life
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pondering writing dancing reading gardening teaching

currently, i teach at one of the larger 'institutions of higher learning' in the area - and i truly love it. my aim? think robin williams in 'dead poets society'...

whenever i get the chance, i enjoy traveling (good thing to have friends conveniently located in larger cities across the country and abroad). for short term adventures it has to be the beach (carolina beach is a great stop for boarding and seafood).

lately, i have started to take yoga and pilates classes again, which might not ncessarily make me all that much calmer but definitely reminds me to stay in the moment.
I’m really good at
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i do a wicked rammstein impersonation...
The first things people usually notice about me
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well, depending on the day it would either be my scowl or my décolletage. or both?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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umberto eco: the name of the rose
buffy the series - because feminism can come in the most surprising package and real vampires don't sparkle
nin, die aerzte, deine lakaien, bowie, manson (and katie perry as my dirty secret)

my favorite dish is bibimbap; as far as restaurants are concerned, i am currently enamored with mateo and el toro. for mocktails it would have to be the alley 26 - because you never know what treat you're getting this time...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the moral imperative of the individual and the correct application of glitter nail polish.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i overuse commata in an appalling (appealing?) manner.
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camp means more to you than a row of tents.