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wintermysecret

25 / F / bisexual / Single

Boston, Massachusetts

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
—
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Latin (Okay)

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I am thespian, chimerical, and sanguine.

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My Self-Summary

Woman with a chip on her shoulder but sometimes sets it down for a nice dinner with friends and family. Closet idealist. Open pragmatic. Frequently disappointed with life but always comes back asking for more. (Because death doesn't put out at all.) Values communication, self-awareness, communication, empathy, communication, and not acting like an ass. Unabashed iPhone and bubble tea addict.

What I’m doing with my life

Recently stepped out of the tumultuous world of academia to enter the tumultuous world of health care.

Other items on the to-do list:
- Save drowning kittens
- Discover the theory of everything
- Create world peace
- Solve world hunger
- Teach the world how to find the clitoris

I’m really good at

Stuff and things.

Running down the cobblestone streets of Cambridge in high heels. Procrastinating. Deadpan humor. Deeply heartfelt displays of romantic affection. Darning socks. Dramatic exits.

Statistical analysis.

The first things people usually notice about me

.. is that I'm absconding with their wallets, pants, or hearts.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books - My Horizontal Life, A Concise Chinese-English Dictionary For Lovers, Oryx And Crake, Breakfast At Tiffany's, Bitter Fruit

Movies - Conversations With Other Women, In The Bedroom, Gattaca, Purple Violets, One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest, Imagine Me & You

Music - Bitter:Sweet, David Poe, Ben Folds, Róisín Murphy, Dave Brubeck, Faithless

The six things I could never do without

Good friends, good food, good sex, and good times.

Auditions for the remaining two slots are still in process.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Debunking Cartesian dualism. Intersectionality. Alternate relationship models. Axonal regeneration. Psychology of learning, i.e. grumbling over how my cat has conditioned me to give her treats every morning through negative reinforcement.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out with friends. In with friends. Having coffee or drinks.

All activities conclude with sleep. I like sleep. Sleep is good.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am a proud supporter of the Oxford comma.

I listen to Wait, Wait... Don't Tell Me! and Science Friday every week. I also watch Tool Academy, Gossip Girl, and Secret Diary Of A Call Girl every week. (Don't judge me.)

You should message me if

.. you are NOT going to tell me that (1) you think I'm sexy or (2) I have a nice profile or (3) we should chat because of reasons (1) and (2).

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