I like women who are in touch with their submissive kinky side and yet know what they want. Women who aren't afraid to go for it but, also, aren't afraid to let go.
A good proof-point of the above are women who are prepared initiate first contact - so if you think we may be looking for the same thing, send me a message.
I am not looking for play + sex with just anyone. The exploration of D/s necessitates a connection and as such the concept of 'random hookups' disinterests me. I am looking for someone I can actually spend some time with, take to dinner, etc and get to know.
I'm also not looking for distant pen-pals, flakes or time wasters.