Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have been involved D/s relationship dynamics for most of my adult
life. I'm Dominant and like to take control regardless of whether
I'm in the boardroom or the bedroom - although there's many
other far more delicious places to be Dominant.
I like women who are in touch with their submissive kinky side and
yet know what they want. Women who aren't afraid to go for it but,
also, aren't afraid to let go.
A good proof-point of the above are women who are prepared initiate
first contact - so if you think we may be looking for the same
thing, send me a message.
I am not looking for play + sex with just anyone. The exploration
of D/s necessitates a connection and as such the concept of 'random
hookups' disinterests me. I am looking for someone I can actually
spend some time with, take to dinner, etc and get to know.
I'm also not looking for distant pen-pals, flakes or time wasters.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Tying willful submissive playthings in rope harness or spanking
them across my knee while ensuring a firm grip to the back of the
Working hard to give back to the world that provided me with so
many opportunities in the first place.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Placing my thumb and middle finger in just the right place as I
hold your neck during breath/choke play.
Ensuring I do/don't leave marks and bruises, depending on your
Educated traditionally in business and vocationally in the dark
arts of kink & bdsm. I enjoy directing dull dinner party
conversation about commercial negotiation/persuasion into one about
the use of the same neurolinguistic programming techniques to
machinate a submissive into exploring boundaries she'd never
I enjoy all kinds of D/s play, and enjoy striving to hone my
techniques. Area of specific interest include (but not limited
to): impact play (whips, floggers, paddles, etc),
Shibari/rope bondage, humiliation and mind play, predicament
bondage, domestic service, slut training, hotwife/bull/cuckold.
Which of those interests you?
The first things people usually notice about me
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How much of my alt lifestyle is actually there in plain sight, if
they know what to look for.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Topics best left to be discussed in person. However I will use the
matter of books to communicate I have thin patience for silly
little housewives who have read 'Fifty Shades' and now want a
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The importance of these and many other values in responsible D/s
relationships: honesty, mutual respect, open communication, GGG,
3rd wave feminism, sex-positivity, queer-values,
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I also have a (somewhat) vanilla OKC profile with
non-obscured photos; I might be willing to share that with you if
you beg nicely.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Your pupils dilated, blood pressure elevated or mind wandered into
dark territory while you read this profile. We should all listen to
our bodies and take more risks in life.
I prefer the willing to initiate conversation - so send me a brief
message with why what piqued your interested in my profile and what
you might be interested in exploring together.
Who are you looking for?
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