wisebutsilly
44 Tallinn, Estonia
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My self-summary
No sweet clue what to write here, to be honest.

Mmhh...
I might be the best thing in your life, provided you were looking for stability, dependability, reliability, loyalty and honesty, however, if you are looking for a fun-person, well, that i may not be - not in the partypartyparty-sense, at least; I am lacking the 'crazy'-genes, apparently; Got more smarts instead.
I am also caring, gentle, emphatic and soft-spoken. I prefer being judged for what i do, less for what i say.

I will always try to stand next to someone in life, rather than behind or in front, as i believe in combining forces, and in partnership.
I am not afraid to take the lead and make decisions, however.

Decisions lead to consequences, and these i will carry - no matter what; That includes 'your' decisions and 'our' decisions.
That's how i function.
If things go belly-up, you will likely find me next to you, and you will want me there. I have a strong sense of right and wrong, and will follow that, trying to do the right, or rightest thing.
Integrity is something i am known for, and i would like to keep it that way..
I am open to suggestions at almost all times and i have no problem to admit if i am wrong; Or stupid; Or an idiot.
Yep, that does happen; Not that often, but i can be good at it, if it does.

Sounds too good? Well, where there's light, there's shadow - no denying that: I can be terribly stubborn, but that is also what makes me persistent, so both good and bad, i reckon.
With me, 'Taurus' seems more program than mere starsign and, following that, i have immense patience - up to a point.

My humor may cover the whole range between sweet, witty, ironic sarcastic and cynical, perhaps some more, depending on my mood, and yours. I enjoy conversations, for hours if the situation arises, and the topics can be quite diverse.
I am a sponge for all types of trivia-knowledge. Not very useful, but occasionally entertaining.

I am a person that many people confide in and seek opinion and advice from; Sometimes all that is really needed is a hug, i found, and you can always expect that from me.
Recently, somebody called me wise; While pleasant, it was certainly an individual opinion; I take it as a compliment and will try and live up to it.

Yes, i have seen a lot in my life, and i never closed my eyes to it, but observed and learned.

I am looking forward to meeting new people, to go out with, laugh with and have fun with, to have a glass of wine with, etc.
What I’m doing with my life
Still changing it, i guess.

About a year-and-a-half ago, i had been dumped for the first time in my life; It seemed a necessary action to take stock of myself, review and improve; I realize it is an ongoing process.
Regarding being dumped, well, it certainly is different taking a sip of your own poison eventually, but i am hard to kill and did recover fairly quickly.
I even quit smoking during that time.

I got back with my ex some time after the break-up, based on my feelings for her, albeit under a different mindset: She proposed an open relationship as the single possibility.
It was not my idea and i was skeptical about it, but i tried to do it, tried to cope with it, in order to keep the person that i love. Almost a year and a half later I eventually realised that i couldn't.
That is just not me.
The kid in the candy-store, with 'everything on the house' and here i was, walking out.

I am enough for one person, and i want to concentrate on one person only, in a monogamous relationship, without tricks.
No, i certainly wouldn't do that open relationship-thingy again.

I live in two countries at the moment: I work in Germany, but live in Estonia. That said, i am away for some time during a given month - here and there.
I’m really good at
Mmh...I am not altogether sure about that.
In my job, i am required to be good at many things, not just one. I guess the private 'me' is similar.
I tend towards practical skills in any case, as i am not much of a paradox thinker.

I am calm, collected, patient, can find solutions to many problems; Quickly and efficiently. Typical male, methinks.
I liked the term 'calm power' that a friendly person recently applied to me... Yeah, not so bad, i find.

While more a rational person, I have learned to trust my heart and my intuition; They are rarely wrong.
The first things people usually notice about me
Straight, serious expression: It doesn't mean anything, really, as i smile easy.
Overall appearance of correctness: I have been told that numerous times. I don't see it necessarily that way, it just seems practical, in a way. And, ah, i don't know...just me.
For some reason i am occasionally perceived as arrogant; I've never understood that: I am usually friendly when i meet new people; Perhaps a bit guarded and a bit distanced, but is that entirely wrong at first?
Oh, well...working on it.
The six things I could never do without
Me.
I used to be a survival-instructor: If it's not there, i either don't need it, or i'll make it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to answer questions like this one, of course.

'Think about something you don't know.' is equally intriguing.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't really have weekdays as such in my job, so Friday is just a day where you can go out and meet a bigger crowd. So, if i don't work, that's where i might be; Or just at home, watching TV or a movie, playing boardgames, theater, movies, cooking, going out for diner somewhere, you name it: I am quite flexible.
I love piano bars, i admit, but really good ones are few and far between, i found.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Right... as if.
You should message me if
you decide so.
Everybody create his own hell, please!
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