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  • Ages 25–42
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My details

Last online
May 4, 2014
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Estonian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
No sweet clue what to write here, to be honest.

I might be the best thing in your life, provided you were looking for stability, dependability, reliability, loyalty and honesty, however, if you are looking for a fun-person, well, that i may not be - not in the partypartyparty-sense, at least; I am lacking the 'crazy'-genes, apparently; Got more smarts instead.
I am also caring, gentle, emphatic and soft-spoken. I prefer being judged for what i do, less for what i say.

I will always try to stand next to someone in life, rather than behind or in front, as i believe in combining forces, and in partnership.
I am not afraid to take the lead and make decisions, however.

Decisions lead to consequences, and these i will carry - no matter what; That includes 'your' decisions and 'our' decisions.
That's how i function.
If things go belly-up, you will likely find me next to you, and you will want me there. I have a strong sense of right and wrong, and will follow that, trying to do the right, or rightest thing.
Integrity is something i am known for, and i would like to keep it that way..
I am open to suggestions at almost all times and i have no problem to admit if i am wrong; Or stupid; Or an idiot.
Yep, that does happen; Not that often, but i can be good at it, if it does.

Sounds too good? Well, where there's light, there's shadow - no denying that: I can be terribly stubborn, but that is also what makes me persistent, so both good and bad, i reckon.
With me, 'Taurus' seems more program than mere starsign and, following that, i have immense patience - up to a point.

My humor may cover the whole range between sweet, witty, ironic sarcastic and cynical, perhaps some more, depending on my mood, and yours. I enjoy conversations, for hours if the situation arises, and the topics can be quite diverse.
I am a sponge for all types of trivia-knowledge. Not very useful, but occasionally entertaining.

I am a person that many people confide in and seek opinion and advice from; Sometimes all that is really needed is a hug, i found, and you can always expect that from me.
Recently, somebody called me wise; While pleasant, it was certainly an individual opinion; I take it as a compliment and will try and live up to it.

Yes, i have seen a lot in my life, and i never closed my eyes to it, but observed and learned.

I am looking forward to meeting new people, to go out with, laugh with and have fun with, to have a glass of wine with, etc.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Still changing it, i guess.

About a year-and-a-half ago, i had been dumped for the first time in my life; It seemed a necessary action to take stock of myself, review and improve; I realize it is an ongoing process.
Regarding being dumped, well, it certainly is different taking a sip of your own poison eventually, but i am hard to kill and did recover fairly quickly.
I even quit smoking during that time.

I got back with my ex some time after the break-up, based on my feelings for her, albeit under a different mindset: She proposed an open relationship as the single possibility.
It was not my idea and i was skeptical about it, but i tried to do it, tried to cope with it, in order to keep the person that i love. Almost a year and a half later I eventually realised that i couldn't.
That is just not me.
The kid in the candy-store, with 'everything on the house' and here i was, walking out.

I am enough for one person, and i want to concentrate on one person only, in a monogamous relationship, without tricks.
No, i certainly wouldn't do that open relationship-thingy again.

I live in two countries at the moment: I work in Germany, but live in Estonia. That said, i am away for some time during a given month - here and there.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Mmh...I am not altogether sure about that.
In my job, i am required to be good at many things, not just one. I guess the private 'me' is similar.
I tend towards practical skills in any case, as i am not much of a paradox thinker.

I am calm, collected, patient, can find solutions to many problems; Quickly and efficiently. Typical male, methinks.
I liked the term 'calm power' that a friendly person recently applied to me... Yeah, not so bad, i find.

While more a rational person, I have learned to trust my heart and my intuition; They are rarely wrong.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Straight, serious expression: It doesn't mean anything, really, as i smile easy.
Overall appearance of correctness: I have been told that numerous times. I don't see it necessarily that way, it just seems practical, in a way. And, ah, i don't know...just me.
For some reason i am occasionally perceived as arrogant; I've never understood that: I am usually friendly when i meet new people; Perhaps a bit guarded and a bit distanced, but is that entirely wrong at first?
Oh, well...working on it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I used to be a survival-instructor: If it's not there, i either don't need it, or i'll make it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to answer questions like this one, of course.

'Think about something you don't know.' is equally intriguing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't really have weekdays as such in my job, so Friday is just a day where you can go out and meet a bigger crowd. So, if i don't work, that's where i might be; Or just at home, watching TV or a movie, playing boardgames, theater, movies, cooking, going out for diner somewhere, you name it: I am quite flexible.
I love piano bars, i admit, but really good ones are few and far between, i found.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Right... as if.
You should message me if
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you decide so.
Everybody create his own hell, please!