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30 M Charlotte, NC

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Last Online
Today – 8:50am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Christianity, and very serious about it
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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...torn between the rock and roll scene and being a responsible adult, hung out with the punx, was a punk, still brutal still true, still have heart, now just eagerly-eyes wide-waiting for the next thing to happen, big or small, trite or cliche.

done the charlotte thing, done the punk rock scene or still holding on on the fringes, i'm ready for someone mature and someone ready to SETTLE DOWN.

i still listen to music and go to the occasional show or karaoke, i need someone wise and willing to commit.

i want to settle down, i want to start my own family, my own tribe, my own circle, build on it, and make it happen. staying true to my roots, i will always be committed to keeping it loose and true, deep, passionate and true. i need a change. the want has turned into the miracle of need.

joy division, nirvana, the cure, rooted in God, love and trust, compassion and punk rock. i am ready for my lover, my friend, my home, my girl, my center, my other half...
What I’m doing with my life
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working, playing drums, going to some shows, owning a house, being responsible yet open minded,
I’m really good at
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being unique, doing it different, playing the drums, being logical, falling in love too fast, oops,
The first things people usually notice about me
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glasses, big Greek nose,
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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eternal sunshine/garden state/science of sleep


punk, emo, hardcore, 90's metalcore, rock and roll, 90's alternative, hip hop, some pop, black metal, metal, heavy metal, circle takes the square, beach fossils, converge, hum, swirles, my bloody valentine, the smiths, violent femmes, the smashing pumpkins, rush, dream theater, yes, crass, leftover crack, nausea, fugazi, outkast, the make up, dismemberment plan, less than jake, primus, tool, q and not u, dead prez, hella, lightning bolt, nirvana, r.e.m., cap n jazz, owls, on broken wings, earth crisis, shai hulud, green day, U2, sonic youth, swans, joy division, iron maiden, interpol, minor threat, poison the well, promise ring, deafheaven, burzum, between the buried and me, gin blossoms, embrace, underoath, the cure, the drums, the books, dillinger escape plan, thursday, screaming females, alice in chains, crash test dummies, mazzy star, xiu xiu, melt banana, the berzerker, hopesfall, marilyn manson, orthrelm, the cars, death, fleetwood mac, the beatles, kiss, wu tang clan, deftones, killwhitneydead, earth, sunn o))), have heart, stryper, placebo, the roots, snapcase,

all, open
The six things I could never do without
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music, faith, family, friends, hope, coffee, tea, wine, beer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my next endeavor
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at a show, maybe at home, maybe even asleep
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like some pop big deal
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 27–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
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