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30 M Charlotte, NC

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:30pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Christianity, and very serious about it
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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...trying this online dating again. My friends have been fairly successful on here. Let's go...

First off, I live in Charlotte. I go to local music shows and concerts. I live pretty carefully though, I do not believe in sex, drugs, and rock and roll, mainly just the Rock and Roll. I am very knowledgeable about Rock. I know a lot of information and have listened to countless albums. My father's favorite band was The Beatles. I grew up on Nirvana and Silverchair, eventually found punk rock and hardcore. I play the drums, the violin, guitar, the bass (i love the bass a lot actually), but my main instrument of talent is the drums. My father plays instruments as well as my two younger brothers.

To say, my mother died two years ago, and I've learned a lot since then. I've been through a lot and I still have a positive outlook on life. To add, I am a born again Christian, if that turns you off, I'm sorry. I don't usually get too preachy, but how can you live in a world with such corruption and not believe in a savior, a creator, and a spiritual guide through this life. Its temporary. Enjoy it now, but don't get too messy easy or you will find yourself ruined...

with that said I like to have fun. I like being sarcastic. Sometimes my friends make fun of me, but I think its because they love busting my chops/I'd like to believe that I am intelligent but I am always (open to) learning new things.

I don't smoke cigarettes but I do drink. I work full time at Harris Teeter and I own my own house. I drive a car and pay bills on time. I am interested in meeting someone with similar tastes and maybe someone for the long run. Still just testing out to see who I can reach.

I like pizza and The Boston Red Sox
I lived in Rhode Island for 14 years and was born in Quincy, MA

Charlotte is very small and super intimate. I keep my shit here and eat and sleep in this city, so I guess its "home". Boston fits that the idea of home better though. I miss New England...

What else. I was the fastest violin player in my elementary class and I've played drums and guitarin local bands I was 14 and not only am looking for a girlfriend, but a band as well.


extra- Psychology plays an extremely important factor in my life. I was schooled by one of the best teachers my senior year in high school, we named the band after him.

NY logic, Boston heart, never say never.
What I’m doing with my life
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working retail, waking up early, going to shows, listening to music, watching movies, going to bars, anticipating the next big change, educating myself, dancing, drinking, eating, reading,
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
playing the drums, talking, (i can talk like crazy), i think i need someone to listen, gift of gab,
The first things people usually notice about me
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intelligence, not fitting or accepting a norm
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Bible, one flew over the cuckoos nest, catcher in the rye, psychology books,

eternal sunshine/garden state/science of sleep

seinfeld, king of the hill, the simpsons

punk, emo, 90's hardcore, , rock and roll, 90's alternative, hip hop, some pop, black metal, metal, heavy metal, circle takes the square, beach fossils, converge, hum, swirles, my bloody valentine, the smiths, violent femmes, the smashing pumpkins, rush, dream theater, yes, crass, leftover crack, nausea, fugazi, outkast, the make up, dismemberment plan, less than jake, primus, tool, q and not u, dead prez, hella, lightning bolt, nirvana, r.e.m., cap n jazz, owls, on broken wings, earth crisis, shai hulud, green day, U2, sonic youth, swans, joy division, iron maiden, interpol, minor threat, poison the well, promise ring, deafheaven, burzum, between the buried and me, gin blossoms, embrace, underoath, the cure, the drums, the books, dillinger escape plan, thursday, screaming females, alice in chains, crash test dummies, mazzy star, xiu xiu, melt banana, the berzerker, hopesfall, marilyn manson, orthrelm, the cars, death, fleetwood mac, the beatles, kiss, wu tang clan, deftones, killwhitneydead, earth, sunn o))), have heart, stryper, placebo, the roots, snapcase, strife,

all, open
The six things I could never do without
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brain, logic, family, bible, teeth, car, entertainment
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what tomorrow will bring :) hopeful
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at a show dancing like a butterfly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like some pop big deal
You should message me if
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you feel inclined to reach me.