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30 M Charlotte, NC

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Christianity, and very serious about it
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Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
things are different when your 30
you get over games, you get over a lot of stuff
you become more responsible
i still listen to music and play drums
yet i work almost everyday and feel the need to be with someone.
i need a companion
someone who will love me for who i am
someone who doesn't play games
i need someone who is susceptible to my needs
i need someone to share life with, a as cliche as it sounds, i'm almost new to this dating thing at 30
let me know what you think
i've had my fair share of heartbreaks all with the wrong person...
What I’m doing with my life
working, enjoying life, playing drums, being social, early 30's are in gear, what's next, what's next...?
I’m really good at
being unique, doing it different, playing the drums, being logical, falling in love too fast, oops, being 90's,
The first things people usually notice about me
hands, face, beard, glasses, cunning approach to pretending to be not interested, you do it too,
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

eternal sunshine/garden state/science of sleep


punk, emo, hardcore, 90's metalcore, rock and roll, 90's alternative, hip hop, some pop, black metal, metal, heavy metal, circle takes the square, beach fossils, converge, hum, swirles, my bloody valentine, the smiths, violent femmes, the smashing pumpkins, rush, dream theater, yes, crass, leftover crack, fugazi, outkast, the make up, dismemberment plan, less than jake, primus, tool, q and not u, dead prez, hella, lightning bolt, nirvana, r.e.m., cap n jazz, owls, on broken wings, earth crisis, shai hulud, green day, U2, sonic youth, swans, joy division, iron maiden, dream theater, interpol, minor threat, poison the well, promise ring, deafheaven, burzum, between the buried and me, gin blossoms, embrace, underoath, the cure, the drums, the books, dillinger escape plan, thursday, screaming females, alice in chains, crash test dummies, mazzy star, xiu xiu, melt banana, the berzerker, hopesfall, marilyn manson, orthrelm, the cars, death, fleetwood mac, the beatles, kiss, wu tang clan, phish, the grateful dead, deftones, killwhitneydead, earth, sunn o))), have heart, stryper, placebo, the roots, snapcase,

all, open
The six things I could never do without
grace, Jesus, family, hope, friends, music,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how big the scape of things can turn out in my brain, just how far i am willing to go with simple things turning into obsession, curiosity killing the cat
On a typical Friday night I am
at a local music venue rocking out wayy too much, waay too loud, releasing all our the demons...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like some pop big deal
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 27–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you want to exchange survival story's through interpretive dance or listen to mazzy star with me.