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37 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:56am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English, Hindi (Poorly), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Westchester native who moved back east from Los Angeles a few years ago. LA is a great place to live and all, but it lacked a certain je ne sais quois. Wait no I fully sais quois -- proper whitefish salad. And seasons. Which means I can be summarized by the fact that I gave up beachside-always-70s-and-sunny for polar vortices and a concoction of mayo and smoked fish. I'll take it.

But for good measure: I've worked the salmon runs in Alaska, studied music in Mumbai, ski-bummed in Tahoe, and driven cross-country more than is reasonable for any non-trucker non-professional musician non-drug runner. I've plied a handful of professions and lived in a bunch of places, and I'm enjoying using all that accumulated perspective to focus on what's important and chase down some long term goals.
What I’m doing with my life
Getting my hands dirty. Running a law practice. Developing new friendships and savoring old ones. Tweaking recipes.
I’m really good at
Backgammon. Approximating Neutral Milk Hotel on the guitar. Trips to hidden gems in and out of the city. Steaming red thai curry mussels.
The first things people usually notice about me
Baby blues. Or that I asked their name twice and then a third time five minutes later. It shows I care.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
East of Eden is my end-all be-all of novels. It's the answer to people who say you don't learn enough from fiction. I consider it no small travesty that Elia Kazan's movie version left out Lee, who was, in my humble, the most important figure in the book. Sure, Samuel's got the Irish wisdom and the twinkly eyes and Steinbeck's grandfather. But Lee is the foil for Samuel and every other major character, is full of mystery and certainty at the same time, and is the perfect fulcrum for a sweeping treatise on human relationships. I mean, I guess the movie was in part just a James Dean vehicle, mid-Century Hollywood and all that, so it's -- Oh. Sorry. Right. Reading The Power Broker now and for what I expect to be a long time to come. The Magus turned my world inside out. David Foster Wallace is my prose idol.

I've been accused of being a stunt eater. I think my accuser didn't like mushrooms or some nonsense.

This one was on repeat for a while recently: Homenaje a Justino. Also getting lots of play time: WKCR's Eastern Standard Time. Eliza Richardson on KCRW, Bombino, Stevie Wonder. I saw Willie Nelson recently, thank god (him being 80 and all).
The six things I could never do without
All kinds of outdoorsy stuff
Reading material
Listening material
A well oiled kitchen
Some tools and a project
My car. I can't deny it. Largely due to #1.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lumber. Clients. Road trips. How to have a positive impact and have fun at the same time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting busy in a Burger King bathroom.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't like the Arcade Fire all that much. There, I said it.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You dance, enjoy getting outside, and place restaurant orders with aplomb.