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30 Marrickville, Australia Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–96
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:20pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Trying to quit
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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"You stride in and out of mess with aplomb!"
This was my best friend's description of me.

But really, a couple of pictures tell more than a couple of words. Some of my work is here:

plus other websites and places which are currently just too much of a mess to display.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
absorbing, extracting, applying.

I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Observing, absorbing
Taming creatures (except for 'rescue quails')
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm already gone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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"The Unbearable Lightness of Being" - Milan Kundera (sent to me by six magical fortuities, including the face of a magical tree.)

"The Neverending Story" - Michael Ende. (the book, not the movie - the movie is great, but for kids. The book is for adults who are willing to face their dark sides and... well... work them out.)

"Beer In The Snooker Club" - Waguih Ghali - This is a gem that I found - # a beautifully sarcastic, bitter comedy; a well-written post-colonial book by an Egyptian writer - a one-time wonder, but WHAT a wonder!

It's like a slow, sardonic, incredibly funny degustation platter of everything the mid-twentieth century had to offer to someone who strives for freedom from generational and cultural baggage, freedom from what is false, from what is pretentious... It's incredibly subtle, incredibly funny, and laughingly bitter - to the point of sadness through laughter:

"Everything Is Illuminated" = Jonathan Safran Foer. This is definitely a premium book. Although it's really hard for me to imagine how it reads to a non-russian (like 'Clockwork Orange' - cudos to any non-russian-speaking human who has read and absorbed this book!)
This book is so profoundly 'bilingual' - both in its brilliant use of language as well as the humour, style, the juxtapositions of western and eastern-european logic. (Clearly, I am using 'bilingual' in a deeper sense than just the ability to speak and understand two languages: bi-lingual in the emotional sense to the same measure.)

Richard Brautigan - anything at all by Richard Brautigan, because he is a true poet, no matter how messed-up.

"The Little Prince" - Antoine de Saint-Exupery


Walrus, ufomammut, Electric Moon, Dead Kennedys, Cosmic Psychos, Primordial, Tool, Scream'n' Jay Hawkins, Razor, Deep Purple, Black Babbath, Juno Reactor, J.S. Bach, KAT, Four Tet, Captain Beefheart, 13th Floor Elevators, Rocky Erickson, Sir General Cloudesley Shovell, Iron Maiden, Alchemist, Nigel Kennedy, some Amon Tobin (the more morbid bits), Testament, Absolum, Penta, Black Sabbath, QOTSA and Kyuss, Stooges, Manilla Road, Voivod, Kino, Nautiuls Pompilius, Beirut, Cosmos Sound Club, Captain Beefheart, Black Lips, Megadeth, Aesop Rock, Beirut, KOT (Komitet Ohrany Tepla), LowKi, O Paradis, Auktyon, Manfred Mann, Jethro Tull, Norreport, (some) Portishead, the list goes on...
Cinematographic indulgences off the top of my head, and in no particular order:

Withnail And I
This Is England
Dogs in Space
Everything is Illuminated
Hedwig And The Angry Inch
Brave Little Toaster
Hudson Hawk
most of Tarkovsky
many Russian movies you would probably not know...


As much as this offends fans, causing them to foam at the mouth, I do find 'Star Wars', 'Twin Peaks' and Murakami - only 'not bad'.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
six chances at life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I have observed.

The 'Intrinsic' vs the 'Acquired'


My (and your) entire life has been leading up to THIS momtent...

(and by now - THIS moment...)

so... this very moment - what am I doing (what are you doing) ?



And then, there is always a more specific case:

While being logged into okc, I do wonder -
Is the love of Narcissus at least in any way, somehow - platonic, or does he actually just spend his entire days missing English classes, in order to proverbially wank in front of the mirror, semi-naked, and with enviable determination?

In which case, at least, is the purpose of posting all of this on a dating site,to the whole world - the pursuit of good comedy, or is that dude actually for real?!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?

And sometimes, later on:

My couch is a raft in a small sea of metalhead corpses... I doob-doob-puff away to the sounds of Police, a Reschs in my hand; a police siren is serenading me from 'The Outside' (aka - for example - Enmore Road).

...and I'm still flowing somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I reside inside an organic shell.
You should message me if
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If you are flowing, or at the very least - striving. If you find yourself discovering surprises every single day, knowing that the best ones are too busy to look for you.

If you are made entirely of magic...

(NB: "Hi, how r u?" is pretty much opposite of 'magic'.)
Write me something interesting, something specific (earthly or otherwise, humorous or solemn, frivolous, arduous, clever, daft, personal or all-encompassing, depressing or uplifting... or don't write anything and just send me music, art, or an engaging link to something concentrated and clever, or to something carefree and weightless - I don't mind). Just write me something that will occupy my thoughts for at least a few minutes - I don't mind what with...