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42 M Spokane, WA

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  • Ages 27–44
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Today – 12:09pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Having fun, living the dream.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am currently a student of law as well as a licensed massage practitioner by day. My university-level background is in developmental psychology, economics, business administration, sociology, and counseling. I like to broaden my horizons through education and experience, each being a balanced part of my life when possible. My present involves traveling when applicable, gleening new experiences, and living each day to the fullest.

From a big picture standpoint, I am devising a plan to end child abuse and neglect. The economist in me tells me that "no problem, big or small, cannot be solved by using the appropriate amount of positive or negative moral, economic, or social incentive." (thank you Steven Levitt for that bit of insight); Martin Luther King, Jr. stated that "while it may be true that the law cannot change the hearts of men, it does change the habits of men. And when you change the habits of men, pretty soon the hearts will be changed and the attitudes will be changed.” I wish to use these bits of wisdom to deincentivize child abuse by creating negative incentive substantial enough that the habits of those who would harm a child are forever changed.
I’m really good at
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I grew up bowling and enjoy frisbee golf and some other sport-like activities. I play in a weekly volleyball league, a flag football league, and spend a good amount of time playing sand volleyball in the spring and summer. I like to listen more than i like to talk. I have a good ear for music and enjoy working with theatre/performance sound systems to get them "just right" for the performers. I am told I have strong hands.
The first things people usually notice about me
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On the physical aspect, my smile and "intense eyes" are often brought up when I meet someone new. On a deeper level, people often notice that I am at peace with myself and the world and am a calming space for people as well as a possibility for full self-expression. I once was told that I "operate at a deeper baseline of emotional connection than [this person] operates at at their deepest level."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite books: JRR Tolkien, The Hobbit & Lord of the Rings Trilogy; Nelson DeMille, John Corey/Plum Island series; Gary Zukav, The Seat of the Soul; Balch & Balch, Prescription for Nutritional Healing; Stephen Brust, the Jerheg Series; George R.R. Martin, The Song of Ice & Fire Series; e.e.cummings, anything; M.C. Escher's artwork.

Favorite Movies: the Matrix Trilogy, the Lord of the Rings Trilogy, and Monty Python movie, most any musical (old and new), Young Frankenstein, Point Break, Rock Horror Picture Show, The Notebook, The Illusionist, August Rush, Kill Bill, pretty much all science fiction movies.

Favorite music: barbershop quartets, harmony of any kind, disco, heavy driving guitar, double bass drum, showtunes (broadway), classical music, rock 50's to current day, techno/dance, rap, all music with harmonies, music that moves the mind/body/spirit...

Favorite foods: thai food, indian food , all mexican food, pizza, ice cream, fresh blackberries straight off the vine, passionfruit, and dungenous crab. I don't eat red meat and pork. I am health-focused.
The six things I could never do without
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1) Lip stuff...I have to have lip stuff! my favorite is by a company called "Nanaks." Their almond flavor is the best.

2) Music: music creates the atmosphere, the enviroment and gives us nostalgia and emotion of each moment...when we hear those same songs played years down the road.

3) A daily shower or two. I love the warm water and spray, it reminds me of being under a waterfall in glacier national park, or in the rushing waves of the pacific ocean (although both of these examples are much colder!)

4) Toothbrush/toothpaste/dental floss

5) Future goals: without them, action holds no purpose. It's like saying "I've been walking for days" but not really walking 'towards' anything....

6) Oil: massage oil, sweet almond oil, olive oil, motor oil...oil lubricates the world; it makes everything better.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think a lot about how to make things more effecient, more enjoyable and more pleasureable in life. I also think about why it is okay to not be efficient and how efficiency and relationship often are at odds with each other. The end result? The chance to be more adaptive and flexible within the dynamic of living.

I think a lot about what I eventually want to write my dissertation on. A Ph.D. is akin to expanding the edges of human knowledge; to choose the manner in which a person wishes to expand the fringe is a tough decision, indeed.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing volleyball on a league fall through spring and doing sand volleyball during the summer. Going out with my friends and having dinner and a beverage. Making plans for the weekend, which may or may not include leaving the house. Enjoying family time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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From time to time experience "agism" in my life from those who believe that those older than them are in some way "less." Au contraire, says I...age is a gift to be embraced by those by both those who have it and by those who do not. For those who still choose to judge based on age: someday, you will experience agism too...may the light bulb of the realization of your former worldview temper your egocentricism. consider yourself forewarned. ;)

I was voted "Most Likely to Succeed" in high school. I am still to this day trying to figure out what that means. Hopefully by the time I've reached the correct psychsocial stage of life (see Erikson), the subjective concept of "success" will be more clear, and I will be able to make the determination as to whether my experience of life was successful or not.
You should message me if
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If you have a cause that you adhere to that is worthy of your life.

If you are interested in sharing a moment of your life with someone who is trustworty, passionate, loving, silly as all-get-out, and is interested in meeting like people for friendship, social activites, sports or other things to-be-determined.

If you share a common interest in alternative medicine, health, natural remedies, nutrition, chiropractic, massage therapy, acupuncture, etc, etc.

If you desire a human sounding board.

Alternatively, if you have pictures of you shooting guns in preparation for a hunt, or holding dead is likely that our realities are not congruent. If you disagree and wish to argue your case, please by all means do. ;)