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21 F Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • All who like bi women
  • Ages 20–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Oct 6
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Working on university
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My self-summary
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REAL TALK: okcupid's identification system sucks and i identify as bisexual, queer, and gender-fluid. i am sick of messages from creepy cismen who do can't read a paragraph. pro tip: don't be creepy! i know that i appear cis and het but I AM NOT and if you can't get past this gtfo
also i'm polyamorous this is not negotiable.

poet/artist, queer, wednesday addams lookalike, from manhattan, living in the bay area, and studying how many times a day i can work palimpsestic time into a conversation.
What I’m doing with my life
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majoring in ethnic studies and creative writing, making arts projects on par with a five year old, reading poetry, trying to dismantling systematic structures of oppression, trying to be more honest, wearing far too little clothes, crossing highways at night, learning to make eye-contact, and convincing other people to drink 4loko.
I’m really good at
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drinking 4loko
bullshitting my way through pretentious conversations
getting dressed
pretending it's 2004
wearing my blue floral silk robe all the time
singing very loudly in cars at night and feeling like i'm fifteen
The first things people usually notice about me
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the weird way i pronoun my t's. mah *~*~~clothes**~~*
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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all i do with my life is read about social activism and analyze it.

i just read 30 books of poetry in 30 days and my favorite books that i discovered were:
foreign bode - nada gordon
remember to wave - kaia sand
occupied - carol mirakove
amor and flesh - mendi lewis aobaduke
the color of dusk - robin caton

all time favorites are too long to list.

mad men and twin peaks and arrested development are forever.
but lately i've been into black mirror, the returned, x-files, cartoons voiced by h. jon benjamin, and documentaries about artists and weird films that usually have subtitles

i really just appreciate films that are made by directors with very specific aesthetics. i haven't seen most movies, and i never have and never will watch a disney movie

i'm not listing my fucking itunes library.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
i am constantly analyzing everything under a lens that considers race, gender, economic standing, sexuality, ability, nationality, ethnicity, etc. so this means you will hear break downs about the social location of muppets.

but other than that i'm thinking about:
the apocalypse that technology has created
what i read last
the ways in which people get molded

and donuts. always donuts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
drunk with some friends
at a party
binging on netflix
You should message me if
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you want to drive around the west coast to beaches and cliffs and woods
you want to teach me how to drive
you understand that i am not a girl, but recognize that i also live in a society that recognizes me as a girl and you understand the complexities of this
you want to go to breakfast
you want to send me a message saying what art you're making right now
oh! this is important, if you have a friend crush on me, because that is a real thing that okc needs to recognize