I try to live a value-based life and without regrets. As Sinatra would say "Regrets - I've had a few; but then again too few to mention." I believe every man should have a code and principles that he lives by. Age and maturity have taught me that pursuing the middle way is the proper path for me. "Everything in moderation" - cliched, I know. But, then of course, even moderation needs moderation. Complete balance is perfection and perfect balance is impossible. But it is something I strive towards and have fun with. I am as comfortable at a black tie event mingling and dancing as I am at local bar slugging back a couple of brews and watching the game. I find myself at ease going out and socializing with friends, finding a new restaurant or chilling out on the couch and watching a funny, thrilling or well-crafted flick.
I am divorced - about 2 years and change. My ex-wife and I are amicable so no drama. I do share a beautiful 4.5 year old girl who is the center of my universe right now. I have done a lot of work on myself and experienced a tremendous amount of growth - painful but all good. I have been in one serious relationship post divorce. She was really amazing but long.distance.sucks. I live a pretty busy and fulfilling life so I'm really looking for someone to enhance my life.
I am physically active and like to keep fit. I want someone who has a good energy level and likes to exercise and move their body. You don't have to be super athletic or thin but taking care of yourself is sexy. I swim, run, bike, hike, play hockey, practice tai chi and yoga. I love anything outdoors. Let's put it this way - I exercise so that I can eat!
I want someone who is intelligent, kind, generous, loyal, has a good sense of humor and is positive. I know what I want and recognize whether or not I want to pursue something within a date or two. I have a knack for sensing people's energy and I have been told by my exs that I am a great listener and I have amazing hands. Physical attraction and chemistry is a must but I want to connect with your mind before things can get physical. The mind connection is superbly important. Intelligent, stimulating and witty conversation is huge turn on. Could it be you?