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  • Ages 43-56
  • Near me
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Last online
Nov 9
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
My self-summary
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Honor, respect and personal integrity are very important qualities to me. One of my 'mottos' is 'anything for a yuck' (as long as both people are laughing). I like to make people laugh with humor and to think with a good discussion. With all life has to offer, these pleasures are somewhat reduced with no one to share them with. I'm a hopeless but realistic romantic. I'm also a musician and would love to find a source of inspiration. It always sounds better with someone to play to.. Nice, can hold a conversation, passionate, interesting, thoughtful, smart, huggable, sensual, good kisser :), easy to talk to, nice smile.
What I’m doing with my life
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Playing my guitar, going to jam sessions, taking better care of myself with exercise, (riding my bicycle) a better diet, enjoying the nice weather and plotting and planning the best third of my life yet to come.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm an engineer and therefore a problem solver. I also am able to talk to someone on an emotional and intellectual level.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Wouldn't know as I'm not them, but if I spend any amount of time with someone, you may like me, you may really like me, or I might not be your cup of tea, but you'll know I was there. However, if you take the time and I'm myself, since I'm a nice person, if don't like me, I'm fairly certain it's not me. ☺
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like shows that either make a sincere attempt to make me laugh or I can learn something from. Guitar player for most of my life. Classic Rock & Blues. Jimi Hendrix is my dead god, Eric Clapton is my live one and Stevi Ray Vaughn is a close (very close) disciple. I also love jazz but liking it and being able to play it are two different concepts. Have no use for horror or ‘reality’ shows, which are of course just a bunch of uneducated people who will do anything just to get on TV and anything but reality. I like spicy food and can eat almost anything I want, but I also respect the lives that were taken so I can survive. I read all but constantly as I have to keep my mind occupied. I pride myself on being up on current events which is both a blessing and a curse, however I'm activity trying to be more part the world than reading about it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My guitars and cats not in that order as no cat is alike and mine are my children. Wouldn't want to loose the motorcycles either, but I could if I had to.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Planning and living the last third of my life and if I'll be lucky enough to find the right person to share it with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a beer and playing my guitar or working on a project.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not just yet. :) But I have nothing to hide. Ask me anything.
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