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55 M San Jose, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jun 28
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has cats

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My self-summary
I'm told that I can be a bit 'intense' but others see this as passionate. I am certainly that. Honor, respect and personal integrity are very important qualities to me. One of my 'mottos' is 'anything for a yuck' (as long as both people are laughing). I like to make people laugh with humor and to think with a good discussion. With all life has to offer, these pleasures are somewhat reduced with no one to share them with. I'm a hopeless but realistic romantic. I'm also a musician and would love to find a source of inspiration. It always sounds better with someone to play to.. Nice, can hold a conversation, passionate, interesting, thoughtful, smart, huggable, sensual, easy to talk to, nice smile.
What I’m doing with my life
Working and trying to repair my recession damaged career, playing my guitar, going to jam sessions, taking better care of myself with exercise and a better diet and enjoying the nice weather.
I’m really good at
I'm an engineer and therefor a problem solver. I also am able to talk to someone on an emotional and intellectual level.
The first things people usually notice about me
Wouldn't know as I'm not them, but if I spend any amount of time with someone , you may like me, you may really like me, or I might not be your cup of tea. But you'll know I was there.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like shows that either make a sincere attempt to make me laugh or I can learn something from. Guitar player for most of my life. Classic Rock & Blues. Jimi Hendrix is my dead god, Eric Clapton is my live one and Stevi Ray Vaughn is a close (very close) disciple. I also love jazz but liking it and being able to play it are two different concepts. Have no use for horror, porn or ‘reality’ shows, which are of course just a bunch of uneducated people who will do anything just to get on TV and anything but reality. I like spicy food and can eat almost anything I want, but I also respect the lives that were taken so I can survive.
The six things I could never do without
My guitars and cats not in that order as no cat is alike and mine are my children. Wouldn't want to loose the motorcycles either, but I could if I had to.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where my life is headed and if I'll be lucky enough to find the right person to share it with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having a beer and playing my guitar or working on a project.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not just yet. :) But I have nothing to hide. Ask me anything.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 40–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You think you'd like to get to know me.