42 Asheville, NC
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What I’m doing with my life
Getting things done
Hanging on one day at a time
Dealing with the ups and downs
Moving forward focused on my goals
Dealing with the drama of two teenagers
Looking for someone who can accept my strengths/faults
I’m really good at
I am good at anything I set my mind on doing.
The first things people usually notice about me
Have not a clue. Let me know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
music; Monk, Mingus, Jaco, Herbie, Miles, Bird, Bella Fleck, Johnny Cash, Willie Nelson, Snoop, Rat Dog, Grisman/Garcia, P Funk, Horror Pops, Rev. Horton Heat, Bob Marley, Balkan Beat Box, Beats Antique, Robert Johnson, The Beatles, classic R&B( anything with a James Jamerson or Bootsie Collins Bass line), The Who, Rolling Stones, The Smiths, The Cure, Sex Pistols, Red Hot Chilly Peppers, the list can go on and cross many genres

i read, but no favorite book. I usually read books pertain to my profession.
The six things I could never do without
Free will
I spend a lot of time thinking about
See "What I'm doing with my life"
Where do you meet women when you're in your 40's?
On a typical Friday night I am
I spend time with my kids, go to the drum circle downtown, hang out with friends, and sometimes go out if my children have a sleep over. Not into the bar scene, but like going to low key type of bar or club.
You should message me if
you're the hottest girl in the trailer park with the darkest roots.
you can count higher than 20 on your fingers and toes.
you wear tons of makeup and would accuse me of cheating if you saw me in a picture with you without makeup on.
your best conversations have been with a fence post.
you have low moral character
you don't know the definition of fidelity.
you get sarcasm.
I don't have to be as excited about your new shoes as you are.
you like middle aged guys with no money and kids.
you want kids and a career(I'll cook barefoot in the kitchen for you)
You need someone to date to show everyone else your not shallow.
You are into out of shape guys with kids and no money.
You want to help me lose weight